I feel useless...

  • cowgirlstar26
    19 years ago

    well what makes you happy? just try to get through the bumps and life will get better on its own just don't dwell on the negatives

  • Nici
    19 years ago

    In reality only you can answer those questions correctly. Try not to think about all the negative in your life, but try to focus on finding something positive instead. I know that this may sound easier said then done.

    The way I like to think about it is, if I put all my effort focusing on negative then that is all I will ever be! If I can find just 5 minutes a day when I can be happy, smile or even laugh, then that will give me something to live for, something to aim for. Slowly that 5 minutes a day will increase and you will find yourself being more positive in general.

    The hardest part is allowing yourself to make that first step, allowing yourself to be happy and think that you are worth life, life is worth you! Other people can help you along the way, but only if you accept that help and are willing to help yourself.

    Anyway, that's my personal and general experience. If you want to talk then post back or feel free to pm me.

    Nici

  • Roulin
    19 years ago

    When I feel like that I write a poem or sing something. Basically, if you have a talent, really use it to express yourself because it makes you feel like someone important. Also, go out with your mates every now and then and have a laugh with them.

    I'm not brilliant, but if you need me feel free to talk to me :)

    Luv Scarlet xxxx

  • summer
    19 years ago

    get out and be active&look at the better side of life!
    try n have more self confidence! ror write out all your promblems or if u have a problem with ur self then try and work on it

    write me bac so i can see if it work
    ~*~summer~*~