Instead of crying, why not crack a smile

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    I think this is the best thread ever created within this forum....inspirational might I add...

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    Well said, man. You're only depressed if you let yourself to be that way and if you choose to think that everyday is the worst day of your life. People should be enjoying life, not competing to see whose life is worst. I don't mean to say that everybody does that, but look on the bright side for just a day and compare it to those other days you've had. It makes a difference in the way you feel.

    And it's very inspirational as well. Again, awesomely said.

    Peaces.

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    Oh believe it born you'll get it but not from us. I'm anti-cutter if you hadn't noticed...lmao

  • Just Sierra
    19 years ago

    interesting convo....

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    Interesting?

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    OMG!!!!! Nighty i was just typing something about how interesting it would be if someone came on and said that! LMAO!

    Okay it's not so interesting anymore lol...

    Peaces.

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    LMFAO night....I started reading that and I already had a five page report I was ready to type back to you after "you have no idea..."...HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA Thanks for a good laugh...

    And life surely is beautiful...cherish it before it is no more because you can't turn back...

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    19 years ago

    Yeah born this is a really inspirational post, and so right. If you think you're happy and OK, you will be. Yeah I agree Natalie, this is one of the best posts on here :)

    Some people are going to come on and say how bad their lives are, but there's always something good in everyones life. They just need to look past their "depression" and see.

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    Born can I have a hug? Please? Do you want to come live with me? I won't hate you....we'll have fun....

  • Sean Allen
    19 years ago

    you should update your profile age!

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    Yes, born you can come live with me....By next year though I'll be living with 2 CRAZY guys.....so no monkey business....they'll get the dogs and that wouldn't be good for your health...

  • ¤|Æ’lοяεηζîά|¤
    19 years ago

    oh curtis, I so really respect you, with your overcoming to encouraging ppl...

    you know, the world really need more ppl like you. To make this world a better place, positive ppl like you can really make a difference in the world...

    And i really agree with your first post. Instead of hating yourself, and saying, oh yea, you think its easy living my life?? and all the !$#^%@$^&&%^#& you! lol. Its really how you chooose to live your live, cause really, YOU live your life, you get to choose to live it out happy or sad.

    N besides, i can really relate myself to you, born, i overcame depression too.. my father was ignorance, my mother was abusive and i was verbally and physically abused, now still, nearly developed an eating disorder, attempted suicide when i was 8, and so on...but really, living out the brigth side is really more fun!! whoot whoot!!

    anyways, i better shut up now. Cya!

    Love y'all, Flo

  • Katie
    19 years ago

    I love your outlook. I used to be able to do this. I remeber when I could wake up and think "Praise God! Another Day Has Begun! I feel so complete and loved!" But, I have no idea why, I dont see things like that anymore. I can look at all the good things in my life: I got a great friends, my boyfriend, my sisiters, my grandma, my dad, my poetry, and life itself. I can wake up to a beautiful sunrise, but my thought always seam to be along the lines of "Why do I have to wake up? Cant I stay asleap forever? Stay in the dark a bit longer? I dont want to face the day..." And I dont know why. I want to be happy again. I can sit down and look at my life. It isnt that bad. I realise that I am truly blessed, but I still feel this terrible painful emptiness nawing away in the pit of my stomach. How did you all get past it? I need a bit of advice. Thank you al for listening.

  • BloodScars
    19 years ago

    lol i've done that...looked into the sky so many times...it really works...im not depressed am i ^_^ lol but natalie is right...it is very insperational

  • Katie
    19 years ago

    i dont know what i could find? I know aht I want out of life, but it dosent change the way I feel. Today I completely overloaded myself with stuff to do, and I didnt think about it all too much, but as soon as I got home...

    I dont know what to do. Maybe your right. Maybe I just need to find something. But the thing is. Even if I find a hobby. I will always have to go home... And I dont think I can handle that.

    Do you have any sugestions as to what I could do?

  • Dominique
    19 years ago

    thats very true, life is what you make of it, so i agree with you, just try and make it a happy one

    ps: claps for borntodie4pride09

    and kaite maybe your hobby can be writting poetry, i mean this site is called poems-and-quotes lol, good luck :)

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    I HATE JELLO!!!!!

    ..............................

    Born, is that negative enough? :P

    Peaces.

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    I'm manager of the coodis curtis I can't! Sorry!!! If you don't like that one or it doesn't work out come join ours!

  • erikka baby
    19 years ago

    I think this post was very inspiration. I just thought more people would tell born that their life was bad and stuff, but they haven't yet. Anyways, I loved this post, and I totally agree with it. Life is beautiful, so live it to the fullest now, because you only have one life to live ღ

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    OOOH I NOT ONLY HATE JELLO!!!!!

    I.......hate.......LIGHTBULBS!!!!!

    And you, stop crying. lol.

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    LMAO

    And bunnies....what the freaking crap happened to their ears?? I HATE THEIR EARS!!!!!

  • ♥•oOo Nikki oOo•♥©
    19 years ago

    I Agree....Deppresion And Sadness Is a Mood Thats Created In Your Mind...If You Believe Your Not Deppresed Anymore Instead Of Thinking Your Doomed To Be Deppresed For Life...You Will Start Feeling Alot Better....There Is a Cure For Depression....And Smiling And Just Living Life To The Fullest Is The First Step xoxo-Nikki-xoxo

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    not all people can live like that, I wake every day in sweat from my nightmares, im surviving on no sleep, and my biggest fear, and im supose to smile?

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    sounds like you are young

  • Absinth Eyes
    19 years ago

    ppl who complain are just sissys- ppl who deal with the worst pain in the world never speak about it, which only makes it worse.

  • Absinth Eyes
    19 years ago

    so ya, smiling and talking about it does make it better... i think? i dunno, i confuse myself : P

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    good answer unless you want to get help and sometimes talking is the only way to get help

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    i was joking around hun

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    ^_______________________________________^

    That smiley enough for ya? :D :) :P ;) B) 8) =J d=)

    Lol...

    Peaces.

  • Lenee.Roca
    19 years ago

    when everything is going wrong.. how are you gonna live a happy life? seriously though.. what if someone is trying to make a happy life but its just not working out.. ya know?

  • ---AL---
    19 years ago

    I conquer... if you think about it, life doesnt have a point to it unless you make one, if you make your point to be sad and depressed through life then not only is it almost pointless but it's not fun. I made my point in life to always be happy with what I have, and to help others through their dark times. Oh and i am surprised that you didn't get an onslaught of people saying stuff... but you got away with so great job!!! ttyl

  • Free_Spirit
    19 years ago

    YAY go ,Born!! shit whatta good as convo thingy lol whateva they called!! finally there is a good and funny thread? to read!! shot born! and itsssss HAPPY!!! things!! yeah go lol,man i've stuffed this comment up! lol ma bad
    Peace

  • {Anything_BUt_Ordinary}
    19 years ago

    this post thing in this forum is great it makes it one step easier to look at your self and say hey i am no worse than anyone else adn i just need to deal with my problems

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    i tend to disagree you cant always smile. I realized now that i use to be so happy till 7th grade then I went and got depressed, I cant smile on purpose because how long ive been depressed. I think depression as a sticker, only except it doesnt lose its stickyness

  • Satine
    19 years ago

    Sometimes it feels good to cry, but I agree, the world needs to be a happier place. So many teens get stressed from school and stuff, but I mean hey, when school's over and you're on your own and have to get a job and everything, you're gonna wish you were a kid again. Anyways. SMILE.

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    A question: People who cannot find the positives...do they choose to make themselves that way?

    An answer: I believe that they do.

    Peaces. //ari\\

  • erikka baby
    19 years ago

    I dunno .. I can't turn away from the fact that there are people out there dying from cancer, and people want to end their lives because their boyfriends broke up with them. Its so stupid, and childish. You'll live and at least you get to live, many people out there don't get a choice, they know their going to die, but you can save your own life and not hurt yourself or kill yourself. Be happy for once ..

    many people are going to be mad that i said that .. they'll probably say "well you dont know what i go through!!" or "my lifes hell" "you don't know me!"

    But I don't care anymore.

    God wouldn't give you a mountain you couldn't climb. Remember that.

  • Katie
    19 years ago

    *snaps* for tattered angel!

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    Tattered Angel-

    Whoever gets mad at you for that....they're idiots. I applaud you.

    Peaces. //Ari\\

  • RaNdOmGaL
    19 years ago

    isn't it also strange that all the people that want to live alwayz end up dieing at about 40 or something and all the people that don't want to live end up living til there about 90!!!!
    luv RaNdOmGaL xxx