Confusing Stuff

right well i really like this guy but he has a girlfriend ... yet the other day he cheated on her with me coz he fingered me and i tossed him off ... it looks like he likes me but i'm not sure ... i really wana go out with this guy but hes going out with some1 else and i'm really confused and need some advise on what to do.

Is his girlfriend one of your friends?

LMFAO....HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA....I'm sorry I couldn't control myself..HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

You'll be his "girlfriend" and then he'll cheat on you with his "ex-girlfriend" the circle will never end. GIVE IT UP!!!

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np she isn't one of my mats i don't really like her, coz she treats him like shit .. but i do kno her and i'm good mates with some of her close mates

and he might not cheat on me if i did go out with him coz she treats him like shit but he sticks around coz he loved her so much ... but i think hes getting sick of it ... but hes still sticking with her even tho he knows i really like him.

You are no different than she is....if he "loved" her so much he would have let her go...NOT cheated on her.

so even knowing that she would kill herself because she would feel lonely without him coz hes always running after her as he cares about her ... how wud he do it?

Telling her it's over.....my ex tried that bullshit and for 2 years it worked. Finally I said if you're going to kill yourself because you don't have me then go ahead...I don't give a damn. And guess what hidden.....he's now talking to another girl and he is ok.

well i guess the guy i like just needs to realise that ... i can't help liking him ... and i just wana be with him ... but like you sed he'll probs cheat on me too.

I'm not being hateful but that is the reality of this situation. You letting him fill your head with the 'privilege' of getting him away from his current girlfriend will keep you wrapped up and then you'll end getting hurt. Just don't let that happen.

i don't belive he is like that ... but i guess your right.

well being totally honest i've cheated on someone before .. and most the people i kno have, also i kno for a fact that he hasn't cheated on her with anyone else.

No, Hidden you don't know for a fact. What you "know" is here say. You know what he says. Don't fool yourself into thinking it could work and he'd treat you so wonderful. Open your eyes and see that you don't know everything and people in here have experienced it all first hand. The very same boyfriend that threatened to kill hisself also tried to be with while he had a girlfriend and then cheated on me. Except he had sex with another girl while he was with me. I should have known. I "KNEW" just like you that he wouldn't do that to me....sadly I was wrong. I gave him another chance and he did it again. I could be all wrong...he could be a good guy. But why take such a risk when it's you who will be hurt? If he'll do it someone else, he'll do it to you.

i'm sorry to hear about that ... but whats to say the guy i like is like that? ... i mean he has a perfectly good reason not to go out with me coz i've cheated b4 and i have a reason not to go out with him ... so doesn't that make us as bad as eachother? ... and even tho we have cheated b4 doesn't mean we wud do it again.

yes i regret it ... and i wouldn't do it again coz it hurt the one i loved and i nearly lost him.

That sounds about right to me too Brandon.

Hidden you're right you're both just as bad as each other but let me tell you something. Being that I've been through this kind of stuff I'd wouldn't go out with a guy who was trying to talk to me while he had a girlfriend regardless of the situation. BUT I would date a guy who in passed relationships cheated. People change and I do realize that but a guy trying to get "freaky" with you while he has a girlfriend is stupid. Don't be a fool and fall for his little trap. You asked us a question and now you're defending him...did you expect everyone to say yes go for it, let him sex you down and be his girlfriend?? I think that's what you want....