What should i do?

  • Synyster
    19 years ago

    You need to seek help. If you truely care for your friends, family and yourself, you'll find away to stop hurting yourself. They care a lot about you. The reason they distanced themselves is beause they don't want to watch you destroy yourself. You don't have to be afraid. You have people who love and care for you right beside you. If you care, you'll find a way.

    -- Maharani of Angels

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    I agree completely. Hun you need to stop! totally. tell your friends that you need support too though. but you need to stop. I have no idea what you've cut with but give it away to someone. I gave away my razor blade, (what i use to cut with) and I havent used it since, since its completely gone, start a journal and write what happened. search here for poems to help you stop. I found a poem the other day that has got me to stop. find ppl that will be there but will be mad if you cut. You need help and you cant do it alone. Ive tried hun. I have sn's that you can reach me by when you have problems, but you need to set yourself into a mind set that you wont cut again ever and stick yourself to it, its a hard ride but you can make it through if you really want too. Its been 3 monthes and yeah i thought about cutting but i havent done it since

  • Lizem
    19 years ago

    I'm a cutter for more than 5years. Believe me you need to stop!!! its not worth. my x boyfriend told me to stop and I couldnt so he dump me. And that gave me a reason to cut even worse

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    You need to suck it up and get help. You're pregnant...or have you forgotten? If you really cared about your baby or your friends/family you would kill and bury the habit.

    Peaces. //Ari\\

  • RaNdOmGaL
    19 years ago

    my personal opinion is i don't think your mates should be so harsh, they should be helping you get through this, not blackmailing you!!!!!! one of my mates did this to me before and i i knew it was gonna hurt me real bad but they said if you don't stop self harming i won't be your mate, and i just turned around and said ok then bye......... they asked me the other day how i was and i said i was fine, because i am, i've stopped self harming because my other mates helped me!!!!!
    but anywayz back to you, no one can really help you decide what to do apart from yourself it depends if you are prepared to lose them, or can you just stop for them?
    luv RaNdOmGaL xxx

  • RaNdOmGaL
    19 years ago

    but beware sometimes professional help makes some people worse but hopefully it won't for you!!!!
    good luck!!!
    luv RaNdOmGaL xxx

  • XxTeArSxX17
    19 years ago

    well kaite your 14 and you cut thats not a good thing. i think you sould stop it might kill you one day. see i am on your friend poing of view my friend cut to so i started to cut ever time she would cut i cut deeper and bleed more. and i really scared her and she stop cutting i told her as long as she dose it i will to it 10 times worse then her and she thank me one day for it to because she seen how much i cared about her because i wanted her to feel how i felt so i made her she didnt like the feeling of maybe one day loseing her best friend. so put your self in your friends place and think of it as if she were the one cutting how would you feel, your friends care about you. they dont want to lose you and you have a life ahead of you were put here for a reason dont let your life go to wast. plz stop get help it you have to and if you need some one to talk to i be here for you. i hope i helped you a lil.

    ~Ashleigh~