hey can u help

umm well, ive bin with my boyfriend mike for a year and i have my best friend alex, and i am head over hills in love with mike, but the thing is that sometimes wen im with alex i keep thinking that maybe i like him more than a friend, the worst thing is, mike has gone away for a month to france so i wont see him. wat if my feelings get stronger for alex. im worried, please help id appriciate it. thanks xxx

Well...trust your heart..

Don't do anything you would regret...

Be honest...

Talk with Alex...

Talk with Mike when he returns

yeh but wat would i say
i dont wanna mess anything up
maybe i just think i have these fellings for alex wen in fact they're not real.
maybe im in over my head. xxx

All I have to say is that things happen for a reason... if you do something with your guys friend then obviously you dont like your bf enough bc then you wouldnt even think let alone do anything with anyone else and if u dont...well then you obviously like ur bf. but dont avoid your friend just act normal and what ever happens happens...just dont put ur bf out of your mind totally bc w.e you do...ull have to tell him about sooner or later. hope this helped....luv yas mwah

-kayla-

first of all don't do anything you'd regret.. i think since ur bfs not here u want there to be feelings for ur best friend. we all feel a bit confused sometimes.. but follow ur heart not ur mind. u need to talk to bf when he returns b/c apparently u love him and if u really do u will be sure that u love him and only him. until then dont let ur best friend know anything just act how u normally do and things will go from there...

dont do anything with ur bestfriend while your bf is away, honestly you will regret it majorly..
talk with ur bestfriend and see how he feels, and then also talk to your bf. jus tread carefully and really think before you make any decisions!!
xx

hey thanks, u helped solitary fairy, well i think ur right about alex, i think i do love him but not IN love with him. there have been a lot of things happening to him lately because hes been threatened to be sent back to africa, and he was spose to go last week and we said our goodbyes and i thought i was never gonna see him again, but then the imigration minister had got the tickets wrong so he can stay fo a while longer to fight his case. i think it just probebly made me think hw much i appriciate him being there. but im so in love with mike and i could never dream of cheating on him ever. thanks guys really appriciate all the advice. xxxxx