Please Help ♥

  • erikka baby
    19 years ago

    My friend Eric and I used to like each other, last year. Then, me and Austin got together (my boyfriend) and we are so happy. I just recently started talking to Eric again. (I've been pretty busy doing other things). Well, we talked for like 3 hours, then he mentions that he used to have a crush on me. I just say "lol" and I mention that I USED to have a crush on him too. (He has a girlfriend named Korrey), so I ask him if he's afraid of losing her in high school, he says alittle bit. Then he says that if he does, then he probably would start crushing on me again. I turn really red and my heart starts racing. I don't like Eric, I like the idea of someone liking me again. It feels good to be liked. But I have a boyfriend, and we've been together for about 6 months. I LOVE HIM! I know I do, but old feelings keep comming back for Eric. I don't like Eric though, I know I don't, but then why do I blush and stuff when he talks about liking me again? I'm so confused. Please help ♥

  • Tainted Beauty
    19 years ago

    Maybe you DO like Eric and you just don't know it yet but if you're both happy with the people you're with then leave well enough alone and be friends with him. Give it time and you'll see what happens.

  • erikka baby
    19 years ago

    Ok, thanks for the advice ♥

  • Kayla
    19 years ago

    lol...deary i think your in denial...i think u dont wanna like eric but truth be told..you do!...thats how i see it...

    -kayla-

  • erikka baby
    19 years ago

    Maybe, but I love austin .. I want to spend the rest of my life with austin.

  • tender69
    19 years ago

    that happened to me DON'T FALL FOR IT!it's probably more the thought of eric and liking you and hhim and you and all that.i fell for that a while ago and ended up breaking up with a guy like 3 times, it SUCKEDdon't don't don't do it.stay with austin and keep your mind off eric for a while.remind yourself of how much u like austin and in a while all will be normal again.britt

  • gorgeouslilmissy
    19 years ago

    i think its a hard one!! if u really love austin stay with him coz honestly you will regret it, same thing kinda happend to me and now i totally regret breaking up with my bf. but yea jus do wat feels right to you.
    xx

  • Truly in Love
    19 years ago

    this same exact thing happened to me... i broke up with my boyfriend because one of my very good friends said they had a crush on me for a long time.. after several phone calls, we didn't talk about this... but when he knew that i broke up with my bf.. he just said that he takes me as a good friend nothing else.... i was so heart broken-- i didn't have the courage to ask him about the crush thing... plus i was missing my bf so bad-- he was good to me, the best boyfriend i've ever had.... but i couldn't go back to him ( that's just not me)..

    So be carefull.... you risk a heart break...
    love,
    ipsita