Falling for your best friend...

  • Avellana
    19 years ago

    Pretty self explanitory. has it ever worked out? is it the hopeless case i know it is?

    Dont even know why i'm botherin. glutton for punishment? thats me.

    lv A, x

  • Kayla
    19 years ago

    lol i fell for my best friend...it worked for 2 years...then he raped me and hit me....lol...at first it is kinda odd though bc he knows everything about you...but then you become more comfortable... thats wat i think anyway... but i dono it is up to you..:) luv yas mwah

    -kayla-

  • erikka baby
    19 years ago

    I fell for my best friend. It didn't work out too good. It was kind of weird between us, but I dunno. It could work out I guess, it just didn't work out with us.

  • xfAdInGxaWaYx
    19 years ago

    I agree with Jimmeh. I fell for my brother's best friend who is also one of my closest friends and well it was just way too weird. It made everything really difficult between us and that was months ago. Things have only just started to get back to normal...

  • Truly in Love
    19 years ago

    i agree with taylor..actually i shouldn't be the one talking because i'm going through the same thing.... i've fallen for one of my very good friends... but i don't know if i should ask him-- the only thing that comes to my mind is that if our relation doesn't work then i would loose a very good friend-- that's the only reason i'm holding back... a rule that i believe is---- friends can always be lovers but those lovers can never come back to being friends...

    so make your decision wisely

    Love,
    Ipsita

  • Clarissa
    19 years ago

    happened to me it was horibble... but i guess that's just me you kno but it depends on ur situation exatly and how ur friend is and what kind of person the are... so follow ur heart u dnt kno where it will lead u to

  • Shædow Poet
    19 years ago

    Hmm.. this isn't really reassuring for me. I am currently in a mutual relationship with my best guy friend. So far it has been excellent; I just hope that it continues to be that way, regardless of the circumstances.

    You've both just gotta want to continue being friends: and if you feel more, then go for it.

  • Emma
    19 years ago

    i dnt reali no wot to say ive fel fur my bfs bestfriend hoo happens to b mine too onli i tld im n he tld me he loved meh ((my bf was on is hoilz at dis point)) n we kissed now we bof realized well neva b 2geva he wants 2 try it wif my ova bestfriend SO MY ADVICE NOW DNT DO IT COZ ITLL ONLI BREAK URE HEART n ther wul b no1 ther eh pick up the pieces

  • fallen angel
    19 years ago

    i fell for one of my best friends. it was good while it lasted untill he got jealous if i even siad hi to another lad, no matter how long id known them. it didnt work for me, but i think its better to date a friend than date a stranger then find out you have nothing in common. but if it doesnt work out would you still be best friends? all you have to ask yourself is...is it worth losing what we have now if it never works?

    hope it works out in the end. xxx

  • Avellana
    19 years ago

    well we kissed. then acted like not much had happened. like we both wanted too and were glad that bit was over? if that makes sense. think this is a wait and see approach. there's no rush and i dont really want to break anything.

    thanks so much for all your replys! you've been awesome help.

    lvs ya all. me.

  • katie!
    19 years ago

    Well, I am with my best friend (also a girl) and we are having a great time, I am really not going to let us lose our friendship if we ever break up.. I really hope I dont lose her if we do
    xx