Serious Question

my b/f is leaving in a couple monthes and hell be gone for 5 monthes missing my bday and our 6 monthes any suggestions so i dont cut and i dont be depressed

hello...
personally i would keep myself busy with other things so i dont have my mind on him constantly...stay with friends so you have other people around you and that you r in a comfortable atmosphere....hope this helped...luv yas mwah

-kayla-

jst count the days call him talk to him write to him adn stuff like that jsut keep remembering he is coming back

ok bob that didnt make things better, because we fought yesterday ove my scars. oh hes cant write for 6 wks, so writing may not help

quick solution: become a GAMER. that way all ur time is spent on playing games and u no longer have the need to cut cause as a gamer (i.e with counter strike) u can bitch at ppl just for being on the same server as u. and, on that plus side..its a game that requires thought and quick action. therefore putting aside any thoughts of cutting. but yeah...games are good..specially the ones that need u to think about what ur doing so that ur character doesnt die in the first 5 seconds of play. keeps ya occupied for hours

The solution: If you truly love him, you will stay strong. Abscense makes the heart grow fonder, as they say. Go on with life as normal and he will be back before you know it. And you will be that much more happy when he does come back.

-- Maharani of Angels

thanks for your post

the first time my gf went on holiday

i was supposed to talk to her each day

on my phone
exept
it wouldnt work in that country
i hardly slept for two weeks
an i really missed her

the second time was different, i got one message off her

half way thru the two weeks
an then i coul text her while she was there but she couldnt text back

you really should try to talk to people, play games, fighting games, shooting games driving games and games that make you think like mario,

age of empires passes the time really well

as you have the net it shouldnt be so bad there are always new peope on the net to talk to

thanks that helps we talked a little bit about it last night, but I probably should get out and look for a couple games! hehehe.

thanks brandon, might look up on that