How do i get him???

I'm in love with my best friend... he's a skater boy type but is very soft natured and emotional... he listens to lots of loud rock- something i just can't put up with... but other then that he loves watching movies and he's believes in love and things like that... now how do i get him to like me... he likes me as a friend but it's just a friend thing.... nothing more.... so what do i do...
We're going to the movies this saturday- i let him choose- so he chose Mr. and Mrs. Smith.... help=(

Well, if you like him in that way, tell him!!! he may feel the same way!

Agreed !! ^^

hey, great advice... but the thing is-- i don't have the courage to do that... no matter who it is-- he has to ask me... so what should i do..... the only way is to get him to like me... how do i do that...
need help.....

Honey, harsh as it may sound you can't make someone like you...you can't change free-weill I'm afraid. If it was possible then everyone would be doing it I assure you. All I can say is flirt with him a bit...show to him that you're real relaxed and real comfortable around him...he could clock on that you like him. Like, when you're talking to him touch his arm and look him in the eye, or look at his lips...this will send off signals that you're thinking of kissing him without being obvious. Also, laugh at anything he says which he thinks is funny...not a full blown belly roar...but a little chuckle now and then will make him feel confident and relaxed around you. All you can do is show him how much of a nice person you can be and how much of a good time he can have with you and just hope it works. You never know...he could like you too and just be hiding it. Showing him you're confident being around him could break down any barriers he has up and he could show feelings which he didn't even know were there. Let us know how it goes. Good luck honey. Take care. Sarah x x x x

You can't make someone like you, that sounds all mean but yeah. if he doesnt like you well than thats his loss. dont try and change who you r for him bc if he doesnt like u for you well then it just not worth it. its going to be hard for you to deal with if he doesnt like you but you cant change his feelings and he'll always be your friend. hope it works out.
xoxo michelle

another pathetic kid. there are a billion guys on this earth.. what makes you think he's the only one? it sickens me to know you kids only think about relationships rather than your school work.

thanks for all your comments.. another thing is that he does like me--- he just doesn't say it... we both have our ex's and there was a time i was cribbing over mine-- so he got this idea that i still love my ex-- i think if i clear that up then things can work.... thanks so much for your advice...

darien, seriously just because u didnt find love or u got hurt when u were younger doesnt make it right for u to judge anyone. like i said in ur post, i think about my school work constantly, i am a A student and i am in a relationship. u can still have a relationshiop and still have ur priorities straight.

Ahem, ahem. Darien, that comment makes no sense whatsoever. =)

"How do you know he's the only guy out there?"
If she was to meet another guy, you'd say the same thing. So.. erm.. you could just go on saying that forever and ever and that would be like telling her not to love. =P

thank you so much for giving me this support--- really dorien i don't know why you say these things....

I had the same problem with my "now" boyfriend Austin. He just thought of us as 'friends' that changed after he got to know me, we talked alot and hung out ALL the time. Then he began to like me. Over time, I think the guy your after will start to like you. I hope I helped

actually, i agree with you ( tattered angel). it has happened to me. buth thing is if i like a guy-- he starts liking me later but by that time i don't like him anymore... but yeah, you did help

Your misunderstanding what I said. 'THE ONE' you know, like the perfect guy. There are other guys with an equal chance, so she shouldn't be so upset over this guy. In time she will find the right guy.

Brandon you shouldn't be calling me a kid, when you're fucking 15. At least we have a health care, you fucked up country would watch you die. So take care of yourself, no one else will.

brandon....the US is statistically proven to be the fattest country in the world.....now that is lazy. canada on the other hand, is statistically proven to be the healthiest

Brandon your jokes are boring and you probably are overweight. The only reason you don't think so, is because everyone else is bigger than you. You act as if it doesn't snow in the US. Do you actually think it snows 365 days in Canada. Because then you would just prove your ignorance. Our summers are just as hot as yours. You may hate Canadians, because we're better, but that's your own fault. So live with it.