well i need your opinions

  • Logan
    19 years ago

    I've struggled with this for quite awhile. I don't know what legally they did wrong but well this cant be right. When i was little my cousin made up a game of house which consisting of us french kissing, i was to little to understand, i thought it was a game. When I got older she threatened me repeatedly untill i did what she said, the last incident was when i was ten and she made me hump her. We're both girls so thats sickening.plz, i've never told anyone, be gentle. She has her own baby girl know, got pregnant at 15. I dont want her to hurt her baby.

  • *sparkles*
    19 years ago

    I think you need to tell ur family so they can take her to get some help b4 she hurts another member of your family or her own daughter. I think that u havent let those memories go because they hurt you. I think you should talk to a counselor or something because that is just wrong.
    xoxo michelle

  • EpithetPoet
    19 years ago

    she sounds like a girl who is in need of serious therapy. you really need to tell someone about this because she might do something perhaps even to her own child. what she was doing to you might seem alright in her own mind but she needs to realise that it is in fact not. tell someone and get help for her is my opinion.
    -A

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    I agree with Epithet...tell someone in your family about this. And make them handle it, don't let them pass it off as nothing. It's not okay, so yeah I think you should tell someone about this...

    Peaces.

  • Logan
    19 years ago

    My families crazy and would respond negatively

  • StormySkies
    19 years ago

    Sexual abuse, watch out for her daughter.

  • pinkalias
    19 years ago

    Yes, she did do something illegal. She sexually abused you, and you need to tell the police.
    You ask for me to be sensitive, but I'm telling you now, if you try to say "I can't go to the police, I'm too scared" you are as much to blame if that baby gets the same abuse as she is.

    Also, how old is your cousin?

  • pinkalias
    19 years ago

    ...care to reply

  • Logan
    19 years ago

    she's 16 or 17 now, i'm 15

  • pinkalias
    19 years ago

    Well, you say that when she did this you were too little to understand. Considering she's only a year, perhaps two, older than you, I don't think she understood either. the fact that she continues this tells me you shouldn't go to the police, but tell the family. I don't think this is a petifile or sexual predator, but it needs to be made known for the sake of her child. You also have a responsibility to this child to make the past open with the relatives.

  • Logan
    19 years ago

    no one in my family would believe me, plus they live a few states away now

  • AGirlWorthFightingFor
    19 years ago

    you might as well tell whoever you're living with, friends, relatives, neighbors, doctors, school counselors...? just tell somebody. whether they believe you isn't really up to you. good luck!

  • pinkalias
    19 years ago

    Alright Logan, I'm trying to be sensitive. Stop using excuses.
    I don't care if you think no one in your family would believe you, you would be surprised if you talked to a member about it. Even if they didn't it would at least be worth a try. And...does her living a few states away change the fact that she has a child? That makes no sense. You owe it to that child the information you have to keep her safe, or at least attempt to. I don't know how you can feel Ok knowing this and not protecting that child.

    If you meant your family members live states away, ever heard of a letter? phone call? family visite? There isn't a good enough excuse to keep a child in danger. Either suck it up and attempt to protect that child, or sit back and accept what could happen.

  • EpithetPoet
    19 years ago

    Yeah and you're obviously still bothered by this if you chose to bring it up here. You've been advised taht you should bring the subject up to someone, so we've done all we can. The next step is up to you.
    It may be nothing, but just warning someone will do more than you think. I think taking the time to tell someone is well worth it if you've saved that child from being corrupted.
    -A

  • Logan
    19 years ago

    alright, i'm considering writting an anonomous letter to her shcool, warning them and encouring to check up on it. eh? but then she'll know who sent it....but its worth it, i agree. Thanks for the advise so far guys.