How do I get him back???

  • Katie Stice
    19 years ago

    I am madly in love with this guy named Xavier...k...and he broke up with me after 5 months of going out with me...he broke up with me cause he says he needs to think about his future and grades...but I badly need him back how do I get him back????

  • Katie Stice
    19 years ago

    But I love him and I can't move on sorry...

  • Loneliness Is A State Of Mind
    19 years ago

    Thats understandable. You are 12 and you feel like if you dont have that person, then your life is over.. Its not, trust me. If you tell him how you feel, then its not like he'll just fall back in your arms, since he was the one that broke up with you in the first place.

    Just do as Angelina said and move on. It will be hard at first, but if whatevers keeping him back still is keeping him back from being with u, then its not likely that you'll get him back anyways.

  • Darien
    19 years ago

    omg.. im sick of you kids and your stupid stories..
    honestly.. YOU DONT NEED HIM.. YOU THINK YOU NEED HIM.. because its the "in" thing. Just forget about it. He's a smart guy, thinking about his future. Why can't you do that?

  • Katie Stice
    19 years ago

    Alright I asked for advice not bitchin from you ppl..and I do think he is smart and he does need to think bout his future but on tha other hand he loves me ......

  • Katie Stice
    19 years ago

    so hes tha one that is sittin here stuck on stupid....

  • Truly in Love
    19 years ago

    ok i have a good piece of advice---
    i don't know how you are at school considering your grades... maybe you should raise you grades up to an A... and then simply talk to him about going out again... if he says he's concentrating on hi studies then just tell him that you've been doing the same and this can be done even if you two go out together.... that way he thinks about his future and you.... hope this helps

  • Katie Stice
    19 years ago

    12 turning 13 in decmber...

  • Katie Stice
    19 years ago

    And by tha way...I get A's some B's...I am a honnor student....

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    Dude...he broke up with you...let it go.

  • lil jjw
    19 years ago

    If u luv him and u feel he still has feelings for u than let him kno. Maybe yall can just be friends for right now until the future comes but u should try talkin to him and lettin him know how u feel

  • Katie Stice
    19 years ago

    Hey ppl I still need some more advice....thanx

  • *sparkles*
    19 years ago

    I think u should take angelinas advice (we have the same views). when i was 12 i had a guy break up with me, yea i was sad and i cried but then he went out with my best friend so yea.. guys suck.. if he wants to concentrate on his grades then let him.. dont be worrying about serious relationships right now maybe this will be a learning experience and ull realize nothing lasts forever.

  • *sparkles*
    19 years ago

    aww how cute brandon. *smiles* how old is she now? or actually how long have u all been together?

  • *sparkles*
    19 years ago

    awww thats kewl... i hope me and my boyfriend will last for 10 months or longer... i think we will cuz our love is getting stronger by the month... hope u all last a long time...

  • *sparkles*
    19 years ago

    6 months 1 wk and 3 days... i barely counted the days and wks right now.. i usually keep track of the months only... but this is our 4th time going out but this time its actually serious..

  • *sparkles*
    19 years ago

    haha thats cute.. girls are usually the ones who keep track of the details. i have a friend who knows the time and everything.. a bit wierd id say.. oh question... r u going out with Kori?

  • *sparkles*
    19 years ago

    ill go read them. ive read u alls profile.. im confused it says u live in new york i think and her in kentucky.. im not sure but i know it wasnt in the same state... do u all really live in different states?

  • *sparkles*
    19 years ago

    oops.. my bad.. i was close! i had it the other way around. *laughs* oh that sux.. so u all have never met? isnt it wierd not being able to c her? sorry... *blush* i like to ask ?'s

  • *sparkles*
    19 years ago

    Oh, I see. Well that sucks, I've never had an internet bf... my luck with guys has sucked up until now... i always seem to find the assho.... i think u know wat i was gunna say. well its cool to know that some ppl can make an internet relationship last.. do u think u all will ever meet?

  • *sparkles*
    19 years ago

    summers almost over... yup yup its true... but guys suck more... kidding! no we r equally mean.. thats the only word that came to mind. if guys didnt only want sex and girls wouldnt be suck skanks and ppl could just be loyal to e/o then i think things would be some much better...

  • *sparkles*
    19 years ago

    OMG it freaking pisses me off too. me and my boyfriend talk about how all the girls at our school r skanks and how more than half the ppl in school prolly r not virgins.. its just so disturbing... it gets to me b/c its all these skanky chiks that make guys think that all girls are cheap hoes.. grr...

  • *sparkles*
    19 years ago

    r u serious? how stupid can ppl get? no one has any morals these days.

  • *sparkles*
    19 years ago

    lmao... haha it makes u wonder what the world is coming to.. soon everything is going to be about sex,sex,sex i mean thats what mostly everything it about today... it just gets to me.. sex sells..... our generation is all gay....

  • Tammy
    19 years ago

    You're only 12 years old!! You shouldn't be dating yet.
    You should be enjoying being a kid, not worrying about relationships.
    We have a 14 year old daughter who isn't allowed to date until she is 16. Even then, we will be very picky about who she is dating.

  • Darien
    19 years ago

    Thank you Tammy,
    my point exactly :)

  • Synyster
    19 years ago

    Someone say 'spell'?

    *Materializes through a mirror*

    Oh, hi, Darien! ^_^ *waves*

    Who are we killing?

    XxX))Eclipse((XxX

  • Synyster
    19 years ago

    Well, what are we talking here? Love spell, death spell, protection spell, storm spells, what?

    XxX))Eclipse((XxX

  • Katie Stice
    19 years ago

    Okay 2 things ppl...this isn't a topic for ppl to sit there and chat....I am talkin bout u...brandon and sparkels and quit with tha damn age thing okay ....yeah I am 12 and in love deal with it....no one here helps cause alls u ppl do is bitch....

  • Katie Stice
    19 years ago

    And Bob u can think what u want when u want but I don't care so don't bother posting another damn answer....

  • JJ
    19 years ago

    My brother's got the exact same name "Xavier". For a second their, I thought you were the girl that's been calling up here every second stalking him...lol.

  • Katie Stice
    19 years ago

    I still need advice

  • Katie Stice
    19 years ago

    K ppl I don't need advice I am like so ova him!!!

  • Poetic Tragedy08
    19 years ago

    keep telling yousrelf that, even if you feel you still need him, keep saying you're over him..cuz sometime they never come back after a long relationship