Would it annoy your boyfriend/girlfriend if ...

My dad yells alot. He would never hit me, but when I ask for something, he says I'm selfish and that I think the world revolves around me. I seriously don't think that. I tried to tell him that, but he considers it back talking. So when he screams, I cry and he says that I deserved to cry because it's my fault I am anyways. I told my boyfriend this, and my boyfriend know the problems I have with my dad. I hate always having to go to my boyfriend for comfort, but he makes me happy. This question is to guys .. and maybe girls too. Would it bother you if your girlfriend/boyfriend came to you for all their problems? Would it annoy you? Would you get sick of it?

Because I'm worried that I'm driving my boyfriend away with all these problems, but it helps to talk to him about them. So I just want to know what you guys think, and if you think I'm driving my boyfriend away, or making him annoyed. Please help. It's much appreciated

Thanks so much. You made me feel a lot better! This is my first "serious" relationship, and I don't want to screw things up. Thanks again

Oh, yeah I was confused, I didn't know which one to put it in, but I agree, I think the love section. Oh well.

I would be really happy if I had a boyfriend that confided everything in me. It's a show of trust. Sorry bout the spelling.

i would be happy knowing that they come to me. Me and my b/f are working on telling each other are past. past and persent are both important matters. and he should help you through your tough times

he should help you not get annoyed if he gets annoyed then why is he even with you!?!?...anyways stay strong and maybe even ask him if it annoys him

peace
love in christ
~angel~

Hey
Im going through something really similiar to you. im afraid that if i tell my boyfriend everything ill be pushing him away, but i dont want to lie and say everythings fine when it really isnt, so yea im not quite sure what to do about it, but just know that your not alone, if you ever want to talk im here...

xX-Katherine-Xx

im in the same exact place too you can email me

Hey hun. I know how YOU feel. I can't tell you the other way around, but I can give you my experience. My father hit me when I was little, but not anymore. Now he yells, in fact, my problem sounds very much like yours. I was also going through the worst part of my life, trying to get diognosed with bipolar disorder, but not knowing what my problem was and always, well, very messed up. Always so needy. I had my boyfriend there, and he seemed to understand that I really needed him. I don't know what I would have done without him. He gave me all the love that I wasn't getting from my father. He didn't leave me, he truely cared and helped me through everything. I would ask him to tell you truthfully if it really bothers him, and if it does, don't hold it all inside. Write it down, talk to a friend, or call a hotline.

Thanks guys .. your advice is so good .. and it really helps

My boyfriend would kill for me to open up to him. I almost, ALMOST, "black rosed" him on one occasion for being so pushy about it. So I think it just depends on the person. Just like some girls like to open up about their problems and some dont, some guys like to listen/comfort and some dont.