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okay...first of the whole sex thing is totally wrong but i mean i am kinda confused about something...#1...when you said he was talking to the girl that said hey baby i mean you shouldnt have jumped to conclusions bc i talk like that to guys even though i dont like them...it is just how i talk and maybe the same thing goes with her...okay and secondly the other girl you were chatting with is it possible that either she meant another guy with the same name or that maybe she actually likes your bf and is just saying that to get you guys to break up...? bc girls can be like that....so b4 you jump to conclusions you might want to get the whole story...hope this helped...luv yasmwah

-kayla-

2 words DUMP HIM! u nor anyother girl should have to put up with some jacka$$es crap. find a guy who will treat u right. how much more evidence do u need? i mean how can all those things be coincidences? get real cmon. above all my reasons its the whole sex thing i mean get real who the hell does that? just screw him. (not literally) hehe *smiles*

okay firstly not meanin to sound all high and mighty here but i think u have got some jelousy issues. i agree with kayla, maybe u over reacted at the whole internet/caht thing. he was prob just being polite and this other lass was prob set out to make u jelous. altho i have to agree he does seem to be a bit pushy with the whole sex issue. maybe hes just read the signals wrong and thinks ur ready. i duno u really dont seem to like this guy so i think its best if u break up. however if u do like him then talk to him. tell him ur sorry for jumping to conclusions and tell him ur not ready for sex, dont do anything ur uncomfortable with.
take care and hope i helped.
xxxLoUxxx

Thank you for agreeing with me...and i too think the whole sex thing was way out of line...but the others could just be jealousy issues maybe and i mean it isnt like he is out having sex with every girl he sees bc then he wouldnt be so desperate to get it from you...lol...a very weird but good sign...so i dono i geuss do wat you want!!! best of luck luv yas mwah

-kayla-

my advice: dump him. especially because of the sex thing.

i agree with everyone in the above posts except for one thing...the jealousy issues.

saying "hey baby" is flirty. if its between two straight members of the oppositve sex, its flirting. she has a right to be bothered by that. flirting=cheating. my reasoning...flirting is acting in a way that suggests you feel more than just platonic feelings for a person. cheating is acting in a more than platonic way to more than one person when you're with someone. therefore...if he's acting in a more than platonic way (flirting) with her and that other girl, she has a right to be bothered.

I was just saying that....some people talk like that...some people call every one baby just like a lot of people go hey hun...it is just how people talk....i happen to say hey baby and have it not mean anything other then the fact that we are friends and i am saying hello..that is what i meant by it.... and i mean i dont know how this girl is but it is possible that she could have meant nothing bad by what she said so instead of jumping to conclusions she could have found out more about it....no harm meant by what i said...sorry if anyone was affended...luv yas mwah

-kayla-

well done kayla....agree ten fold :D

Thank you! lol luv yas mwah

-kayla-