do you trust them again

do you trust the person who made your world fall apart the one who made you cry the one who made you feel like you wanted to die , do you trust them again ?

Honestly? In personal experience I don't. I don't know how to trust them fully again. I trust them as best that I can, but as for fully and completely, I find it impossible
~*Fark*~

I agree with ~*Freak*~......through personal experience i would never completly trust them again.....i did once and it totally back fired i guess....i use to trust way too much, i'd trust anyone and everyone....and sutimes I still do, but i'm learning not to anymore....i've had way too many times where that person really hurt me or humilated me.....no...i now, do find it impossible to ever fully trust them again.....
~Luvz~
~Chica~

i dont know who "them" is, like who ur referring too.

Anyways im how Angie is... I used to trust way to easily, I let people in all the time. And I admit that sumtimes I slip, but I'll also admit that I now I have trust issues and that I keep ALOT bottled up.

well i dont. not at all. i mean i tried the whole forgive and forget thing but that didt work for me. i told him i forgave him...but i secretly hate him from my heart.

i think even if u really 'trust' someone fully after an event...its always going to be in your memory, in your heart. if this person or people mean a lot to you, than its you to decide given the situation etc. good luck...keep us updated!! take care x x x

Well in response to the "forgive and forget" comment. You can forgive and forgetting isnt all that hard, but even if you cant forget you can still trust. It's all in how you are. Or you can still be completely caring and civil towards them. Even though you don't trust them you can easily still comfort them and be their friend...For example, my friends once went to the other school in my town at lunchtime to "beat up" a girl that had been harassing them...We had no intention of really hurting her we were all talk. So when we get there shes like a bat out of hell and jumps on my friends back! and proceeds to punch him. Which sucks cuz he can't defend himself, she's a woman. So we pry her off...And what do I do????? Heh...I hugged her...o.O Yea...I hugged her...I wipe away her tears...She was upset, we invaded HER territory to bring on shit that we should have just let go. I felt bad...As an afterthought I shouldn't have done it, but to this day I'm still nice to her, even though I wouldn't trust her as far as I could throw an elephant...
Get my point?
So uhm yea..You don't have to trust, and forget or even really forgive, but you can let go, and look past it.
~*Fark*~

ok well maybe you all need to know what happend to help me on this one see my best friend at the tiem had sax with my ex boyfriend who was not my ex at teh tiem and i am not sure what to do trust her or not ?

I don't know why, but i do trust him. I love him. He broke me into so many little pieces and just left me there...he hates me and he's been really awful to me...but i still love trust, and forgive him

I have issues with trust... I haven't trusted anyone at all since I found out my 'parents' lied to me about who I was... [I'm adopted]

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i can trust them if truly love them but the only thing is that deep inside somewhere i'm still afraid of the fact that if they hurt me again.... other then that i constantly try to tell me to forget the past-- that is if i see a certain change in the person..

I don't think i would be able to. Maybe i would try, but only to a certain extent. A lot of times, not at all.

Peaces. //Ari\\

i want to trust them again but i know i will only get hurt again!!!!
luv RaNdOmGaL xxx

If they have a chance to do that, they were probably the only person who I trusted in the first place. It probably depends on how they did that and weither or not they were sorry (genuinly sorry, not just saying it!)

I'd probably just beat their ass when they pulled it in the first place.

Peace.
♥Niki

i dont think anyone can ever truly again completely trust the person who made there world fall apart i no i cant.... they might b able to hang out with them deal with them be near them ex but they probably can never again truly trust them

Remember, Tears, that trust is not necessarily broken because someone hurt you..

The truth hurts more

honestly i dont know why he broke my world but hes back in my life, sumtimes things happen for a reason, i wouldnt trust him if he lied cheated or what not but he didnt just couldnt deal with the relationship. but hes back, and I have a 100%faith and trust in him

~*Freak*~, you are the coolest person in the world.

I follow the train of thought that most things we consider evil & scary are merely lonely and lacking in social niceties.

I mean, there are some people that once you lose my trust, you're gone. but it really depends on what kind of person they are. A person is a lot more than a single act. usually I forgive & trust again. there's really only one person I can't. I can actually forgive the act. but the person, I have no desire to reunite with. I've grown past it.