How Can You Introduce urself to a girl u don know

hi guys!
Can u tell me how might i be able to start a conversation with a girl that i have never met.....but i saw in a public place........
i want a nice way so that she would get attracted to me
(in the public place!!)

Thnx alll

------THE SNAKE EATER---------

Introduce yourself and give her a compliment on something she's wearing...and/or ask a question having to do with whatever she's checking out or doing...in this public place you speak of wherever that may be...just be polite and calm/cool...good luck ;)

.... and don't forget to SMILE. That always helps to put people more at ease when you are just breaking the ice. If you can inject a little humor into the conversation, that's even better. But that can also be a bit risky if it doesn't go over well with her. Good luck.

Yes, I agree, you have to smile! You also need to pick a good topic of conversation. A boring topic will lead to a bad intro. First impression is important. Be spiffy!

And also.....MAKE EYE CONTACT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Peaces. //Ari\\

if shes wearing a t-shirt with something you can relate to bring that up, and thing, like a biking t-shirt. or a t-shirt with a cute saying. something you guys will have in common. dont make her cry. this guy wants to date me but i wont date him cuz he made me cry talking about killing animals and showing me pics of the deer he killed

haha watch the movie "hitch" guys need it simple, no offense guys. walk up to her, compliment her on something, look her in the eye and ask her name. it works for most girls lol

LMAO I watched Hitch. It was a pretty good movie. Not the best, but it was okay. :P

Peaces. //Ari\\

wow. y'all make it sound so easy! lol. when in fact its very difficult. most of us guys know everything ur telling us, but its a completely different situation when you actually approach someone and start talking. y'all know this as well as we do. any advice on getting rid of those jitters? or is that one of those things u just have to deal with and work past?

Mike

O.o I just came back to this post. Yeah, I'll be there!

Peaces. //Ari\\

No, Michael, you are never going to get rid of the jitters. But as long as you guys don't use that stupid "I lost my phone number can I have yours?" line, you probably will be okay.

Only way to get rid of the jitters is by going through the situation enough times to let yourself get used to the anxiety...

wow...I needed this post...I am a shy guy by nature,and have never talked to a girl that I did not already know.....I watched hitch,good movie, some good advice but I have always wanted to try it myself...thanks everyone.

Thnx U guys u gave me great advices!

and BTW i watched Hitch its cooool

but when it comes to real life its a bit Hard!!!!!!!

--------THE Snake Eater-------

thx guys
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---------THE SNAKE EATER-----------

well being a girl, i'd want sum1 to smile, be friendly and make me feel good, and not have any of his m8s hanging round making me feel foolish....

Can anyone answer the same question but bout guys... how should i talk to a guy when i first see him or just meet im???

Thank You guys ......

but i wonder if i can get more posts on this topic plz
its really imp to me !!?

--------THE Snake Eater-------

Lilly, i can only speak for myself, but it's really not that much different. Yes, you'll find some guys that only care about looks, but a lot of them will fall for a good smile and conversation. Just remember that the worst thing that could happen is it doesn't go as planned; it's not the end of the world. Once you realize this, you'll be more calm and relaxed, and more successful. Hope that helped.

Brad
Champagne