my ex and my bestfriend.. huh

ok so my best friend wants to date my best guy friend who is also my ex b/f. what should i do should i tell her it's ok or do i tell her that i dont want her to. because i still do love him and seeing my best friend kiss the guy i once kissed would really hurt me. i dont know what to do i mean i am over him as much as i will ever be but i am not sure i want my bestfriend with the one guy i love. but she seem to really like him what should i do help me please

Seeing your ex kiss a girl is going to be tough either way no matter who he dates, And i think it was nice enough for your best friend to ask you first. But really you have to weigh out the pros and cons of both decision and figure out which is the best choice, that's all i can say, i can't make the choice for you, you have to make it on your own, but just try making a list like i said and see if that helps.

Don't make the mistake I did and let your best friend go out with him. She knew I still liked him and still aske dme if it was ok. Me being me, said yes. You have no idea how much it hurt me to see her going out with him. Don't make that mistake it's going to hurt like hell!

if ur best friend knew how much u loved him then she should never even think about getting with him. thats just wrong. i mean sure she cant help how she feels and blah blah blah but she can choose whether 2 act on those feelings or not. it all comes down 2 who is more important. u or him. but if u act like u dont care or w.e than she'll do it. tell her how u feel or else it'll kill u if they hook up. well not kill u kill u but emotionally....lol hope that makes sense.

If you're not going out with him anymore, then it doesn't hurt to let her. If she has feelings for him, it's only fair to see where that can lead. Sometimes it does hurt to see your ex with somebody else, but you are either with him or your not. And if you aren't, you shouldn't worry about it.

2 each his own i guess...