how do I get something I never had?

I met this really cool guy in Durban when I was there for a holiday with my mom, I know him about a year online and then I met him. He was like the coolest person I knew, I fell in love with him, but never told him how I feel, then I needed to go back. A month after we met I told him how I feel and he told me I'm to late, He already have girlfriend. She treats him like grap. She tolds him his annoying when he do something spesial for her. How can I make him see that his better of with me, how can I make him love me

'slowly slowly catchy monkey' as the saying goes - that's if Ive quoted it right! But yes, just remain sort of there, still around, talkative but not forceful. Appear only slightly interested; but be intersted. set yourself a time limit and don't go beyond that for fear of wasting your own opportunities. Good luck.

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You can't make someone love you. My advice is sit back and see what happens. Don't try to get between them because that just isn't fair. She did get in first.

You can't make someone love you. My advice is sit back and see what happens. Don't try to get between them because that just isn't fair. She did get in first.

you cant make any one love you. but you can be there for him and show him a good time as a m8. then in time he will realise your better for him than the girl he is with now.