all the "bashers"

  • Tasha
    19 years ago

    Okay, I'm not exactly sure what I want to say here but I guess I'll figure it out as I type, eh? Everyone that self-injures, some of you get mad when other people call you "cutters." But, then you go and call people like (off the top of my head lol) Natalie24 "bashers." They are not bashers, they tell the truth. You should be calling then honest. I know, that this has been posted a million times and blah blah blah. But I really don't care. I just wanted to put my intake here. I am not dissing "cutters," because I have nothing against them, but I'm just saying don't be hypocritical. I admit SOMETIMES they can go a BIT over the edge, but they're actually concerned. This post was pretty pointless, and I'm hoping not to get a negative response from this, although I have a feeling I might. Well thanks for reading all this!

  • Tasha
    19 years ago

    No problem. I've seen your posts. Not a basher. Just honest.

  • Tasha
    19 years ago

    Bob, you're right. Like I said above there are 3 million and ONE posts on this. Like I also said, it's just not complete without my intake =) lol.

  • xfAdInGxaWaYx
    19 years ago

    Well said Tasha

  • JustAFoolInLove
    19 years ago

    wow... okay, ANYWHERE you post, you're gonna get feedback that you dont like, it's how the world runs. you see it every day. there are the positives and negatives all around you. okay, example; mcdonalds. you have the fat lards who love the place, and will defend their burgers to the death, then the vegans who try to routinely burn the place down. positive and negative. i dont think that anyone is really bashing you. i mean, i've seen one or two ACTUAL bashers here, and if you do see a genuine, just ignore it. if you dont wanna hear it, dont take it to heart, k?

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    why are they concerned about what others do when they are depressed, i mean they arent a shoulder to cry, this is just my opinion but I think that they should but out, its not like they care for you as a person. we are just depressed ppl over the internet. I dont have a problem with them "bashing" as you put it, when they go over the edge, thats when i have a problem and im sure thats the way it is with a lot of ppl

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    why do they care if its just words I meant -"I dont have a problem with them "bashing" as you put it, but when they go over the edge,"

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    im talking about the ppl that are considered bashers, and go over the edge over the time, i dont have a problem till the bash

  • Kelly L
    19 years ago

    Well it depends on where you as an individual decide how far the "edge" is.

  • Kelly L
    19 years ago

    Me too. >__>

    Care to elaborate? Or at least enlighten us on your view of "the edge."

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    The edge...is the edge. It's just the edge of the edge...of the edge. But who dares jump off the edge like a moron and strike the edged edges of an edged stone?

    Psh...i could give you a few names...

    You get my edge? (Lmao!!)

    Peaces. //Ari\\

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    Cooazz! :D

    Anyways...yeah. Honest people commonly get mistaken for being a "basher".

    But heading over to a post and saying "you stupid little b!tch"...THAT'S bashing. I think. :P

    Am I a basher? No. I say what i mean and i mean what i say. What's on my mind isn't something you haven't heard from me already.

    People who accuse honest people of bashing...

    Suck it up. If you don't want the real deal, don't ask for it.

    Peaces. //Ari\\

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    No worries! Lol...watch out for the plane, man. O.o

    Peaces. //Ari\\

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    My brain smells good...

    Peaces. //Ari\\

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    OMG!!! I've never seen Azreal use one of these: :(

    You're not a bad person!!...dammit. Lol.

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    *sniff* I don't have msn! :'( LOL

    But yeah...just remember to SMILE!!!!

    Bye Taylor!!

    Peaces. //Ari\\

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    O.o I've been ordered. LOL

    Peaces. //Ari\\

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    Lmao!!

    Peaces. //Ari\\

  • cowgirlstar26
    19 years ago

    wow whats the topic? I'm so lost I think "bashers" can get carried away with the truth and if yor gonna give advice you should kno how to give it cuz yea there are alot of threads on cutting where some people just want to see how many poeple they can get to feel srry for them but there are some people who just want to talk and actually feel better

  • cowgirlstar26
    19 years ago

    well I've always looked at the worl as being a bleak dismal place but life's only as bad as you let it I mean yea telling people they are stupid for cutting or wanted to commit suicide needs tp be said but no to the extent that some take it I mean it's a waste of time for one thing so why drag it all out?
    and no I don't need people to say "It'll be ok" cuz life aint perfect it never will be all I really try to do is roll with it but somtimes you can't that's why you don't see writing threads about suicide or cutting cuz it doesn't help to ask for advice on here about that shit cuz really no one truly needs advice when deep down they already know it's wrong

  • cowgirlstar26
    19 years ago

    sorry lookin at it I don't get it either but like I used to be depressed all the time and I mean if you look at some of my really old poems you can tell I was miserable but like I dunno I was talking in one of these threads a while ago and I dunno it just hit me at once everything everyone had ever told me and I decided I never wanted to cut ever again cuz it's dumb and from then on I've been kinda just going back and dealing with everything. I mean 2 nights ago I made a huge mistake but that was me being a dumbass and trying to fit it ( i was drinking) but yea if you go on here and tell people how stupid they are for cutting why even waste your time doing it? it doesn't help people who post on here about suicide and cutting are either looking for attention or being stupid so it' dumb to type out a whole argument about "bashing people"

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    The edge as i put it, is making someone feel like shit for their personal discions. the bashing goes so far, and makes you feel horrible

  • †JustAri†
    19 years ago

    "The edge as i put it, is making someone feel like shit for their personal discions. the bashing goes so far, and makes you feel horrible"

    ....Well the edge is pret-ty damn dull, ain't it?

    They've made mistakes...they feel better thinking that what they have done isn't wrong. But yet when someone tells them that it's wrong, that's when they slowly begin to feel like sh!t. When they feel like sh!t is probably the point were they start thinking "Oh man...i f***ed up". Tears tears, sob sob. They're ADMITTING that they've got problems and whether or not they want to step up and solve them is up to them, if they really want a better life.

    So i think they're SUPPOSED to feel horrible.

    BUT (as i've said before) opinions and point of views may be shared without any unnecessary insults thrown at each other. That's just uncalled for.

    Peaces. //Ari\\

  • Garrett
    19 years ago

    What's the point of this thread? God, you girls really like to argue, don't you?
    By the way, my name is Garrett. I'm kinda new here (really I registered here a while ago, but never got on until now - just never had time)...

  • Already Beautiful
    19 years ago

    i havent posted on this forum for ages, so it surprises me the amount of fighting happening, isnt this place ment for helping people with sadness and depression. stop the arguments and try help out is my theory.. there really should be a bitch fest forum i think...