/*/*Need a self confidence boost!HELP!!

My boyfriend wants to take things further and in my heart i do too but i lack self confidence and i thinks its holding me back. any advice

I have exactly the same problem. If you want, do things in the dark. Helped for me!

What kind of thing does he want to do? I may have some suggestions.

I have never seen you, but if you're boyfriend loves you, or lieks you at all, he's going to like you no matter what happens. I know that's hard but .. its true.

well i am sort of insecure about my body. I mean not my whole body just the parts only that special someone should see and me and my boyfriend want to have sex but we are gonna wait until we are 16 so that its legal or whatever but we are still exploring eachother and stuff and i know if he loves me, how i look won't matter but that doesn't stop them from thinking something even if they don't say it.

He's 15 but he'll be 16 in april and i turn 15 next august and u guys...gah ok we aren't 12 so enough with the "ewww"s ok? lol and we aren't going to do anything like that anytime soon

hang on a sec. it is legal from 16 onwards in the UK but both partners have to be 16+. and yea i think what u are plannin on doin u should also wait until u are older cos ull on regret it. grip onto ur childhood for as long as u can, cos ull b running bk to it when u get older.

xxxLoUxxx

ok ok ok people i'll wait to do anything drastic. but still, what do i do about that fact that i am insecure????

waiting...thats ur advice on dealing with my insecurity lol. ok but how does that help???

talk to ur bf about ur insecurities cos eh is the one who can put them to rest. tell him u want to do things but u are insecure about ur body and so either want to wait or lwt him assure u that u are perfectly fine and lovely in every single way!

take care
xxxLoUxxx

thank you now that is something i can do lol. That may actually help! lol jp

i'm out too lol i gotta go to church soon but if u think of anymore advice lets me know. Byez!

Hey, I think maybe you should wait for a little bit longer. I did stuff with my ex that I really wasn't comfortable about, I felt insecure about if he'd like what he sees etc etc and so I didn't enjoy myself.
I'm now with my present boyfriend and we've been together for 17 months. With him I really couldn't care less I know he likes what he sees (without making me sound seriously big headed.) Theres no harm with waiting longer. Also talk about it with your boyfriend, maybe ask for some reassurance. xxx

i'll try that. thanx so much!!! :)