I've made a huge mistake and I don't kno what to do....

Last night was the last night of my county's fair thingy which i've stayed at the whole week
last night a bunch of us all went and got drunk and there was this guy there a few years older than I who I hung out with
well you know how when guys and girls get drunk everyone just kinda pairs off with each other? I always figured I wouldn't do that but I did.
I ended up In the back of his car and well I dunno what all happend I think I slept with him but I don't know
I don't feel different and I wasn't sore or anything so I don't know what the hell I should do
I know it was my mistake for getting drunk in the first place but yea....
Like this morning when i called my mom to get a ride home I was so trashed I couldn't even walk strait and I'm grounded now and i don't care about that but now I may have slept with some guy who I don't even know and I dunno if it was just me being a slut which i'm not cuz i was a virgin or if he took advantage of me

Uh hun, if you were too drunk to remember it and you DID sleep with him, it's legally considered rape because he was the older, more accountable person and if you were to drunk to remember exactly what you did, you were to drunk to consent to ANYTHING.

This happened to my best friend and she had to call a legal help line, that's how I know all that.

I'm here for ya hun. You're not a slut. You're just a kid, we all make mistakes.

♥Niki

like It wasnt really even a party we all got done showing cattle,sheep and horses and stuff and after the fair was over we all just got wasted even alot of the parents were drunk and I know I'm young and I shouldn't have been drinking at all so yea i dunno

hey brandon I love how you call me kid and your the same age as me

how is drinking childish? i mean yea it's running away from mistakes and trying to forget stuff but I think I'm way past the childish point

You're not old enough to drink, hun. You're 15 - that's six years under the legal age limit. You don't know what you are dealing with and what could've happened - especially at a county fair. You need to be more careful because one day you're going to make this mistake again and you're going to be raped or murdered - or both. The same thing happened not far from where I live. People go about life saying that it'll never happen to them until one day it does. I can keep telling you horror stories, but I know it won't convince you, so I'll leave you with that. Just remember that you can't undo the past.

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well no matter whether you say it's childish, ppl drink at 15, no-ones gonna stop that... ppl enjoy it. i guess it just got out of hand with you, and i'm sorry for you for that because the position you're in now is not one thats very 'comfortable' i guess.
yeh go to a doctor...call a helpline or something. good luck...
take care all xx x
PS: brandon: just a question...do u drink at all??

Yeah. Drinking is highly overrated. And hangovers are no fun, as I hear from my more "adventurous" friends...

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hey brandon I get how your saying it's childish and all that but when you think about how much of the worlds population drinks then yea, before 2 nites ago I had only drank a couple times and it was like just light stuff where I didn't even get buzzed. then I had a really shity week and I wanted to "get away" from it all. belive me you don't have to convince me that drinking is bad I hate it and I hate myself for what happend but I can't change it all I can really do is learn from it. but yeah I am scared to death of what could end up happening from this and ur "holier than thou" additude doesn't make you look all that mature

LOL Ismail. Really, Brandon, you are about as mature as an embryo fertilized but an hour ago. But then again, even it may have more brain cells.

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hey gurl i'm here for ya!....It's best if u go to a doctor and get checked, i'm pretty sure that there not aloud to tell ur family members of wut went on during the appoinment and for wut reason u went....i think theres this code or sumthin where there bound to a patients privacy....well ne wayz if so i suggest u take legal action....

And Brandon u say that she she's only 15 and is acting like a kid...yet ur 15 as well and no offence but the way ur answerin and talkin in da posts makes u seem slighly like a child. It won't help bashing ppl, if u don't have any helpful advice to give then y post?....it just makes ppl feel worse and i don't think anyone likes that. I mean wut if one day u had a problem and asked for help and others bashed at u cuz they remebered wut a jerk u were to em?......i don't mean to offened u or anythin but i'm just saying that ppl make mistakes beleive me...and u can only learn from them. Everyone makes mistakes and it only ends up making them a storger more wiser person.

Sure Drinking is not a good thing but sumtimes its alright. I'm sure u probably think that me saying this most likely means i drink eh?...nope i don't only on weddings where its mandatory and stuff.....See my family encouages drinking, my whole dads side of the family says that i should drink. and that by not drinking i'm "putting down the family name' and i'm becoming and 'outcast'...how random is that?.....ne wayzi'm gettin of track here srry...

Ne wayz Cowgirl if ya eva need ne1 to talk to just PM me! Oh and don't listen to Brandon he's just really imature and doesn't understand that others have feeling as well!...pay no attention to him lolz!kkz! hope everything turns out for the best for u! ne wayz g2g i'll ttylz! byez! xoxo
~Luvz~
~Chica~

all i've had people Iming me and asking what I did and I've had people tell me what I did I've had everyone but him tell me what happend and I dunno what to do about it

Okay i said I DON"T DRINK....and yes it is mandatory for ppl to drink at weddings....or at least the weddings i go to....there not church weddings okay....and i'm not makin an excuse, its true!.....

And don't call me an idiot.... u may hit the answer "home" but its consideered bashing, in a way. look i'm not here to fight bout this but don't call me a "kid". Ur the same age as me...15...and i'm no drinker as u so kindly put it.....and if sumone thinks ur answers are bashing and say that they are...well get over it, don't think that there an idiot and a kid just cuz they have a different point of view....later.......

wow I find it kinda funny how all theses post go fom advice giving to bashing or atleast thats what brandon had turned it into but yea I've been trying to get ahold of this guy I found out what his name is and stuff I talked to his friend who said that terri sad he didnt fuck me but he "had fun" I have no clue what that means but yea any imput that's not telling me how dumb it was for me to drink would be great cuz I finally don't have a headache and I know how stupid of a choice it was to drink!

Well, he's been suspended, so no need to worry about him for now.

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yay! (jumps up and down)

brandon: fuck you for blaming the victim.

to the OP: um, was this recently, cos if it was less than 3 days ago you could get a rape kit. ask your doctor. also, a pregnancy test/aids test wouldn't be a bad idea.

hi iz me again! ummm not to change the topic of this or anything but i was just wonderin.....ya said that Brandon got suspened....how do ppl get suspened?....i never that could happen.....ya learn sumthin new everyday.....just wonderin y did he though?Not that i'm not happy bout it....cuz well he called me an idiot....but still i am curious lolz!
~Luvz~
~Chica~

this happend on sat night and I dunno how to like go to a doc and stuff cuz I dont want my mom to find out

thx all

Natalie

if you went to the doctor, it's illegal for him to tell your mum, so you could sue your doctor if he did!!!
and how did this post start going on about the fact that your too young to drink??!! cause that wasn't the main point, the main was that you wanted help on what to do, i hate it when people make it out to be your fault, and anywayz if people wanna drink they can drink, and i don't think anyones gonna really stop them, it doesn't stop me and i'm 13, and i know there might be some people on here now that are gonna start saying i'm stupid and stuff just because i get drunk at 13, but i don't care what anyone says it's my life!!!!
but back to the point, cowgirl i hope everything works out ok!!!
luv RaNdOmGaL xxx

like how does that work with insurance and stuff cuz like I don't have the cash to just fork out like 200 $ to go get checked out

U could visit a family doctor, ya don't have to pay then cuz its probably covered.......

like what do u mean liek the one i normally go to? cuz I know when i normally go we just pay a co pay thing with our insurance and stuff

ohhh ic ic! i dunno here u can go visit ur family doc and they don't charge anythin....guess iz a bit diffi here....srry i didn't know....

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~Chica~