I'm too scared to love her

talk about it with her...find out if she feels the same way... see if she's serious or more likely to bail again... good luck

wasshe serious before? you shoud talk to her about ti

I would talk to her about it, she obv doesn't know she hurt you the way she did, but if shes come back to you, then chances are she still has strong feelings for you. Love is all about taking risks, you gotta decide if she is worth getting hurt again, because although love can make you feel on top of the world, it also hurts like hell. xxx

she does love and care about u. after 8 months and she asked u back out.... id say she never stopped loving u.... everyones scared to love the one they do, for fear of being hurt but thats just a risk u have to be willing to take. just tell her how u feel...

If u truly mean that (about spending the rest of ur life with her) then u need to let her know that... i think ur soo sweet.... *big hugs* i hope ur relationship works out...

what exactly r u trying to tell her? u all love e/o..... if ur scared of her hurting u well then no offense but no one can guarentee that, not even her.... like i said its just a risk... u have to go into a relationship knowing that one of u is going to get hurt at one time or another..

"everytime i talk to her about it, i get nervous and the words never come out right"

mmm...maybe you could take your time and write it out in a letter or something, and be there as she reads it so you can see her reaction and talk about it right there...

if she ask u out again... it means she might still love ya... but always take things slow... and talk to her about how u feel... cause that always seems to work :D

-steven

talk to her!!! simple!!! i am trying to tell everyone that if you love someone or like someone, dont be afraid to speak to them... they should accept whatever you say as serious.. listen.. relationships come and go and no matter what ne one says,, if someone says they will never leave you,, it may still happen. forget the past. look at the present and just go with what ever comes along.. i hope you find that she really does love you. best of luck

talk to her. I agree. Im in the same boat with you. your talk may take a lot of courage. but it will work out for the best. I know how you feel