im 13 and abused by my mom i need advice plz

  • PERFECTLY BROKEN
    19 years ago

    MY MOM IS VERBALLY ABUSIVE TOWARDS ME SHE YELLS AND SCREAMS AND I HAVE EVEN HEARD HER CALL ME A SLUT AND A BAD EXAMPLE TO MY FRIENDS PARENTS WHICH IS NOT TRUE I AM A VERY MATURE INDIVIDUAL WITH ALOT OF LIFE AHEAD OF ME BUT IN MY MOMS HOUSE IT STINKS WE HAVE 3 DOGS SO FLEAS CRAWL THROUGH THE FLOOR EVEN THOUGH I SCRUB THE HOUSE CLEAN EVERY WEEK AND THE WORST PART IS THAT I LIVE IN THE LAUNDRY ROOM. YES I HAVE A BED A DRESSSER AND A BAR THAT HANGS FROM THE WALL THAT I HANG MY CLOTHS ON IN THE WINTER TIME WHEN IT IS COLD I JUST TURN ON THE DRYER UNTILL IT IS WARM IN THE ROOM THERE IS NO AIR CONDITIONING SO I HAVE A FAN THAT SHE BOUGHT ME......VERY THOUGHTFULL HUH? I NEED HELP AND ADVICE FROM ANYONE WILLING TO GIVE IT? IM BROKEN AND SHUT DOWN FROM ALL OUTSIDE ACTIVITIES DUE TO THE FACT I HAVE TO CONSTANTLY WATCH MY 8 YR. OLD BROTHER WHO HAS ADD AND DURING THE SUMMER IS TAKEN OFF OF RIDDALIN SO IT MAKES MY LIFE EVEN HARDER. MY BOYFRIEND HELPS ME THOUGH HE MAKES SURE I DONT RUN AWAY OF ANYTHING SO PLEASE HELP? THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME, BROKEN

  • *sparkles*
    19 years ago

    u need to do something... talk to other members of your family or ur bf's parents b/c that isnt right.. who lives in the laundry room.... im very sorry that u have to live the way you do and i wish i could personally slap ur mother for the way she treats u... u need to tell someone that can actually help. how long has this been going on. email me at sparkles262003@yahoo.

  • PERFECTLY BROKEN
    19 years ago

    brandon-im not like that i do put him in place hen he needs it but why the hell abuse him?

    bob-i do admit you are write that is the only reason i havent gone crazy was because of me thinkin bought that but sometimes i have to focus on myself and my own problems.

    sparkles- thanks i sent you an email

  • Kalika
    19 years ago

    Perfectly Broken: I am very sad to hear about your situation, but I truly believe that you need to talk to someone who may be able to help you. Yes, there are worse situations out there, but you need yo focus on yours, and on bettering yourself. I admire you for holding in this long.

    Brandon: Although I do agree that ADD is not really a disease, I do not believe, however, that Cancer is not one aswell. Cancer is a very serious disease, and has nothing to do with someone being lazy. I think that was extremely judgemental, and ignorant of you.

  • PERFECTLY BROKEN
    19 years ago

    does anyone have any advice on how my dad could when me over if we all go to court over custody of me?

  • natalie
    19 years ago

    well you could take pictures of your living conditions and any proof you can get about how you are getting treated and they will be able to be used in court. btw where are you using a computer from?

  • Exquisite_Emily
    19 years ago

    First of All. ADD is a disease. I have 4 people in my family with ADD/ADHD. Its terrible. They say that when they dont take meds it hurt, and they feel like they cant control themselves.
    2nd of all...Listen to bob. He's smart.

  • PERFECTLY BROKEN
    19 years ago

    my moms room when she isnt here

  • RaNdOmGaL
    19 years ago

    wow, i'm speechless, sorry i don't really want to get into abuse in my house!!!
    but hun you need to do something!!!!! NOW!!! that aint how you should live, my bedroom is in the dining room which may sound alright, but the dining room is just like a hallway - i have my bed one size and a cabinet to put my clothes in the other side, space to walk through in the middle and my rabbit in his cage, i have a door either end of my room because you have to walk through it to get to my dads room, and my dad gets a massive room and my mum has her own room aswell!!!!!
    anywayz, get help from someone, anyone that you can talk to face to face not just on here!!!!
    good luck!!!!!!!!!!
    luv RaNdOmGaL xxx

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    You'll never take it so why ask for it....

  • Georgi
    19 years ago

    Natalie r u online? i could do with some1 to talk to
    :(
    xxxxx