should i leave

If you wanna leave, then do it. Do what YOU think is right, follow your heart. Have you tried talking to this person? Do they actually know that their actions are causing you to doubt your relationship?

Oki..well if he loved you, he wouldn't delibrately hurt you...maybe tell him if he doesn't change his ways, if he does keep on hurting you the way he does, then you are leaving. And mean what you say, because if you say it then give him another chance he'll carry on hurting you, because he knows he can get away with it.

jjreece:

My oh my, Ive been there done that and worn that ragged ol' t-shirt.

It's so hard to break the cycle! - you think it'll change and so you give it another go; and another go; and another go.........until it sucks the life and soul out of you and you become a prisoner to their moods and behaviour (am I ringing true here?). Then the jealousy kicks-in and you think there's a reason for their behaviour towards you - you begin to suspect other people etc etc. The chains that bind become tighter and tighter; but your jailor is a free spirit and nothing is 'binding them'. Frustration becomes an understatement.

You need to end it - but can you?

u shud tell him ur sick of him standing you up or u shud just leave him