I'm 15 he's 20

I will tell you something from my own experience. I met this guy online and I actually loved him and he loved me back (i guess) .. he was 22 and i was 15 and i really didnt care about the age difference.. but as time passed by i realized that age does matter.. u will later find out that both of u dont share the same thoughts cuz of the age difference.. its like how a a teenage girl likes to buy makeup and a lil baby girl who likes to buy barbies!!! and about the telephone thing.. i actually gave him my phone number and we talked a couple of times, but i gave it to him after along time of knowing him, not right away cuz its very dangerous.. my advice to u is that dont continue on, and as Melissa said (by the way my name is Melissa too hehe) .. find urself a real bf :)

I agree with the fact that trying to have a relationship over the internet is obscure, but I think a 5 year age gap is insignificant the best girl I've ever been with was 4 years older than me. But from a males point of view I don't think a man could ever be serious about saying I love you unless he has actually met you personally, even a short sapce of time could tell. The monitors over which we chat are no more than a mask of how we really feel, if you two met in person I am confident he would only be interested in one thing and that you would both fee lawkward around one another.

well i'll give you my advice but you prob. won't agree w/ it! I dated a guy on the internet and we met and everything it was kool but not a thing to do often beucase you know that are some people out there who don't care and just tell ya crap. But as far as i c age dosen't matter! people may think if does and that in few years it won't matter but the fact is in a few years you'll still be the same amount of years apart! Not only did i date a guy from the internet i dated a guy who was almost 7 years older than me and i love him to death even tho we arn't together. But i hope that might help you out a lil.
Marie

Well if i were your father i would just prolly kill him.

if you were over 18 then a 5 year age gap would not be that bigger deal but i think it is now especially as its a computer thing. i also do not think this guy could love you because how do u get to know some1 in 1 week and not even in person. theres no harm in chatting to him on internet but dont give personal details to him and plz do not meet or talk to him on phone!

The best bet is, don't even think about meeting him. You don't know what might happen, even when your parents don't know. For a relationship on the net, that is the most dangerous thing of all.

Trust me, I know, because I have met with so many distraught women who have been raped and kidnapped for meeting these people. The best thing is to let other close people know what is going on in your life, otherwise that person might take it from you.

I maybe 21 and young, but I have met over thousands of women who goes through life like it was over for them with no hope left. You don't want to end up the same way! Plus there are more to know about the law, that is where I learned my rights as a women.

i relate to this because the guy i like is 20 as well.
but::: usually when a guy says he doesn't care about the fact that you're 15, he's a pediphile. i mean, do you even have pics of this guy?
even though you may not listen to a word i say, this guy may just be after you for sex. i know how that goes all too well hun.
my guy lives in Cali (far away from me), but i've met him. and i am absolutely in love with him and heartbroken that he's so far away.
i'm 15. soon to be 16.
he is illegal.
and that makes me utterly sad.
but the thing is, i know i'd wait forever just to be with him... and he has the same feelings about me.

Ok this I can answer your not doing anything wrong girl I'm 15 and i'm dating a 20 yr old if you like the guy and he treats you good then you should get to know him.There's nothing wrong with age differences in my opinon.Hey if you want to talk then u can email me at armyfantic4u@yahoo.com we can talk about this if u want I know what ur going through.

Havent you heard the horror stories about stuff like this?

I'm sorry, but this is completely irresponsible of you. Tell him you'll call him in 3 years if you really like him that much.

You dont know him at all, the internet is so impersonal, you have no idea if anything he says is factual or fictional. What 20 year old guy would be interested in a 15 year old online girlfriend? Not any I know... chances are he has something up his sleeve.

Does he know what state or town you live in? And has he pushed for cyber sex in any way? That is an offence that he can get charged for.

i think Gineyda is right you may be telling the truth but is he ??? he could be like 50 and be a rapist !! NOT SAYING HE IS just letting you !! Just be care cuz you never know im not trying to scare you!!! but yeah !! good luck

neva trust a guy wen he sez he loves u unless uv bin togetha for at least half a yr an u know he knows u well.
if anyone thinks the age difference is bad, my friend is 16 an engaged to a 34 yr old!

i am engaged to a 19 yr old and i am 15 na age is nothing only if your like 11 and hes 34 thats bad but if you love the person and you are old enough than age doesnt matter!!!!! But you cant love some1 that you just meant !!! so i would get to know the the guy first be4 i say i loved him