~~~~ADVICE PLEASE!!!!~~~~

  • nikki
    19 years ago

    hey everyone ok heres my probem i had a crush on my best friend and he knew i liked him and then at the end of the school year i had to move away and he said he realized he liked me to so before i left he kissed me and we made out for like along time and (in notes be4) we had always said luv ya like a bro or sis ya know so i said that to him and he said i dont think its like that anymore and i said ok and then i moved (4 hours away) and he went to florida for summer break and when he got back a few weeks ago we talked and when we were finshed talking he said luv you like a sis...now what should i do i feel like hes forgotten everything that happened should i talk to him or what plz help!!! thanx.

  • Lydia O
    19 years ago

    Why don't you just ask him if the feelings you shared and the thoughts you expressed to each other before you parted still hold any meaning for him now.

    And speaking on another level, I think it would be difficult to maintain an ongoing relationship when you are 4 hours apart unless you can still manage to see each other regularly.

  • InMyWorld
    19 years ago

    i agree w/ lydia, it'll be hard when you're far away especially b/c you can't drive yet.

    ask him about it.

  • nikki
    19 years ago

    since ive moved i have gone back down there like 5 times and stayed for like 8 days so i always see him but still.

  • ~DyingBlackRose~
    19 years ago

    just ask him if he still feels the same about you and if not then try to go back to the old ways and always deep down inside.....still love him the same. if that makes sense

  • Already Beautiful
    19 years ago

    next time hes says that, say what he said. " I dont think its like that ne more" and see his reaction... i think people are too scared these days of rejection which leaves them silent.. speak out girl!!! if it doesnt work out, think, "this will all be forgotten oneday". hope that helps, best of luck. mwah

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    hes probably afraid he scared you off like that. and if that isnt it, then youre still friends best of luck

  • nikki
    19 years ago

    thanx everyone your comments really helped (seriously)