Do you ever understand?

Me and my b/f have been dating for a couple weeks now. We dated like 4 years ago, and he was my first love. Now hes back but hes joining the military and leaving for like 5 monthes. Im also joining soon, next summer. He said hed start calling me, because we are both busy, and he doesnt have a phone. He hasnt made any effort to call. on top of that, he wants me to tell him my past that im not ready for that. But I really dont want to do that. What should I do to make this relationship work out?

just go with your feeling, nothing can work better, trust me as a person who has had many different experiences with love... why not call him. it couldnt hurt.. im sure hed like that. your past shouldnt worry him if he really likes you, it the future and the present to be aware of... he should just accept that your past is something you dont want to explain.. their no use in trying to change it so he shouldnt worry. best of luck hun

the only way i have to get a hold of him is his friends cell phone, and hes at work alot. i dont want my past to scare him. but thanks for the help