is it love or just messed feelin's?

ok theres this chick at my sailing club who is fairly actractive which i've noticed the first day but didn't do much since i'm trying to avoid relationships till i get back to a girl at school. plus i never thought much about her just actractive chick nothing more. we've sailed together a few times and i really felt nothing, but today people we're hopping from boat-to-boat just messing around we started headed back 2 shore and she hopped on a guys boat. i felt like i was shot. i got my boat out of the water took everything down and left as fast as i could. i couldn't smile i couldn't pretend i was ok for the rest of the day even now 7 hours later i'm sad/angry. i don't know what this is i just thought she was beautiful nowi think it's bloomed in to real feelings but i don't think i want to.

i dunno what to do. should i ignore it or tell her or not.
any advice?

You should tell her, because maybe, she feels the exact same way about you.

i have strong reason to doubt she feels the same way just by her body language but maybe...

i'll dwindle on these thoughts

you guys both told me what i already know but i really didn't want this. but i can't control my feelings just my actions to the feeling. ! this friggin' sucks. i have no idea what to say to her.

actually nevermind people thanks for trying to help just found out she likes some other dude this really fucks everything up

here i am talking to myself but anywho
a day later i'm a little more chilled i don't know if i should attempt sumthing or let her go as simplely a lost cause. i mean on msn she asked if i liked sumone at sailing i said "not really" considering i like her then she told me she liked a guy, alex

so i dunno if i should try somthing or not any advice?

u know maybe she asked u who u liked cuz secretly she wanted to know if u liked her. Also maybe she told u she liked this guy alex to make u jealous. Ya never know until u tell her. That would be the best that way u won't be wonderin for hours on end wut'll happen. Suck it up and just ask her. Worst come to worse she'll say no and to be friends but hey thats the way it is. But u could always find sumone else like that girl from ur school u talked bout. I think though that the girl u sail together with does like u and is just finding a way to make u jealous so that maybe u'd ask her out. So don't sit here and ponder wut'll happen! Go ask her! ya never know she could say yes!! lolz!..... don't be offended if i said sumthin wrong in this post and i'm srry if i did. Just sayin u shouldn't keep ur feelings inside. thatz all... ne wayz g2g ttylz! byez!
~Luvz~
~Chica~

i was thinking about that too maybe she asked to see what i said maybe she thinks i'll act differently at sailing but i doubt that now i had a convo on msg with her and it was really retarded i'm pretty sure she didn't care if i liked her. if you want to see the convo i think it might be saved. i'd appreciate your help but i understand if you dont want to get indepth in my stupid problems. i think i'll just write her a note or sumthing sayin how i feel i doubt the direct approach i originally planned of telling her how i felt and asking her out will work with my new found knowledge. but i'd appreciate any help you could give and the help you gave (although it wasn't helpful) if you want to help still e-mail me brian1990king@hotmail.com i think maybe a chicks insight on the situation would help but if i dont get it i'll just write the note

thanks for trying to help (above)

even though clearly no one cares i'm writing this...

i think when we were sailing today she winked at me but i wasn't sure and the sun was directed at her so i doubt it. but right now i have no idea what the hell to do i mean the coaches are saying they are most confident that she doesn't like alex and i was talking to her about and when a group-o- people walked by and thewy all looked at me like i was talking crazy shit and right now she's telling me that they might not be going out after all

so do i try to get her or not? i mean i have no idea

i think she likes you but is playing hard to get or maybe shez hoping to provoke you to c if you have any feelingz for her but from my point of view it looks like her and that alex dude dont really have much going on...so why not give it a try u got nothing to lose, or do you?

i think she might like me but i don't get why she'd say she likes alex and apparently he thinks she mad at him to he's mad at her anywho.... she was lookin at me alot today (it kinda freaked me out) but i can't talk to her until monday, which sucks shit, because she's gone till sunday. so if anyone has an idea how to tell her that would be sweet