please respond to this i need advice dont ignore it!!

Even though it hasn't turned to physical abuse, emotional abuse is just as bad. If you are scared he will turn violent, then you need to get out fast. You can't have a relationship based on fear.

Your bf's controlling behavior toward you is way out of step with a loving, healthy relationship.

Healthy relationships are characterized by shared respect, trust and support.

Respect - valuing each other's opinions and listening to one another in a non-judgmental manner. Understanding and consideration for for each other's emotions.

Trust and support - acknowledging each other's own individuality; supporting each other's goals in life and respecting each other's right to his/her own feelings, opinions, friends, activities and interests.

Ask yourself, "Does his behavior reflect these characteristics?"

A bad relationships is virtually certain to become worse as it progresses. Having no relationship is far better than being in a bad relationship.

I say dump him and deal with the pain. It's only going to get worst. He's threatening you now and that's a warning right there. Guys don't joke about hitting unless they plan on doing it. The next time their will be no warning, he'll just do it.

Hopefully their won't be another topic posted here
"Help!!! My boyfriend punched me. What should I do??"

Dump the jerk. He's a controling freak with a serious inferiority complex. You don't need trash like that running your every move. If you live near me, tell me where he lives and I'll personally tell him to leave you alone (if you know what I mean). JK. But you need to drop this guy like last week's garbage, cause he's doing nothing but causing you grief.