WHY WON'T ANYONE ANSWER THIS QUESTION???

hun i answered it. and personally if you could contact me, i would tell you my story, and how things went for me

ok if he loves you he aint gonna fall out of love with you trust me. after I told him he thanked me and wouldnt let go. And sex if you can stay away from it for a while. and if you want to the guy should understand, try to stay away from the things that are gonna freak you out. i was in the same position i know how you feel. this was just last night as a matter of fact. things will only get worse if you dont tell him, if you freak and have no reason to back it up upon hes gonna think its his fault

listen it hapened to me n i told my boyf, he was really annoyed that i hadnt mentioned it from the start but my boyf is a kinda guy thats gota sort people out ther n then he dont like people getting away with things like that but he accepted it n we've moved on he accepted it was in the past, if he loves you he'll do the same huni xxx

i have been through it....if you love your boyfriend and he loves you then dont worry about it...telling him will bring you closer together and he will appreciate your trust! good luck and i am sorry about what happened to you. luv yas mwah

-kayla-

the past is the past,telling him shouldnt be a big deal, unless you make it a big deal. and if he likes you sexually, even something as horrible as sexual abuse shouldnt stop him. guys just like sex. no matter what has happened in the past. just tell him your special needs and if he dosent respect them then you move on to someone else. some one who can understand and empathise with your need to go slow. ok

I had a friend whom I really loved, she was raped by her brother more then once. I still tried my hardest to show her I loved her. I think I wanted to love her more and protect her more then I would a regular no scar girl to show compassion and I guess a bit of pity. I had extremely strong feelings for her. But I'm not sure. Maybe deep down I overall didn't care about her past and just wanted to take her for who she was. I'm not really sure X __ X

Love is patience, relationships are about love, no love, no patience, no relationship.

been through the same problem with my girlfriend, we're geting through it slowly but surely, show her that not all guys are bad.

Any guy that would break up with you for something like that, doesn't deserve to be with you.

Thirded! lol! x

thats messed up man, I say that a bf would be pissed but confused cause he doesnt know what went down so he if he really loved you then he'd kick that rapists ass for you hell if that happend to me my man would kill him anyway never know if a girl was tricken or telling it how it is just the way life goes whether they beleive you or not I feel for you girl keep your head up dont let negativity get in your way cause these fools dont know shit

If this guy loves you he'll be completely willing to take things slow and will be extra careful with your feelings... any guy that doesn't isn't worth spending time worrying over.