unprotected lover
19 years ago
I eventually told my b/f a recent past I had, that has caused me night terrors. but things that night went wrong alot. my brother in law, kinda pissed him off but that was patched up, then my sister wouldnt let me talk to him for a while i have no idea what was said, the abuser called my sisters cell, so he found out the guy, Im just scared that after all that happened he doesnt want to be with me anymore. what should I do? |
*sparkles*
19 years ago
I didn't exactly get the story? It confused me. Explain it to me a bit more simply and then Ill give my advice to you. (im a bit slow sometimes hehe) |
unprotected lover
19 years ago
for like a year now i was sexual assulted by a friend of the family. that has caused so much emotional damage, causing me to have night terrors. He wanted me to tell him about my past mostly about that. He came over and my sister was on the phone with him so he found out who the guy was, and then my brother in law yelled at him in front of everyone for something personal so he got mad at wanted to leave, him and my sister talked while me and mike sat there and talked he came out while i was crying with my brother in law, my b/f yelled at him, thinkin he made me cry, and from that point things went wrong |
xღxBeckyxღx
19 years ago
Ah so people have found out now. And your bf thought he had made you cry but he hadn't? |
unprotected lover
19 years ago
okay basically saying we were supose to have a nice night, where i was supose to open up to him, and i was supose to feel better, but instead i felt worse, everything went wrong that night, and everyone was emotional. Im afraid now that he doenst want to be with me, have any ideas on how to fix things |
AGirlWorthFightingFor
19 years ago
Well, I'm sorry to say this, but you can't do anything now. It's out there. You did right by opening up about yourself. Go you, brave girl! Now it's up to your b/f and family to react the most mature way possible. The problem with situations like this, you never know whether opening up will bring them closer together or drive y'all further apart. It might be hard at first, but eventually, if he's worthy, your b/f should get over himself and do what he can to help you move past this. I don't understand why anyone yell at someone after being told somethng like that. maybe he's just scared. Go easy on him for awhile. Don't be too demanding. Don't try to fix things. It's not up to you. |
unprotected lover
19 years ago
no one was told what me and chris talked about, but this is kinda get open my brother in law told him he needed to use protection, and so that made him a little angery, and then everything else happened |