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hey, umm my ex g/f, which i sitll really care about, wants to go drinking with her buddies this weekend, and she knows how strongly i feel that i dont want her doing that stuff and drugs and all that crap, and i even told her again not to do it just toniteb ut shes still wanting to...any suggestion?

umm...well u should tell her how much its bad for her...don't think it'll work considerin u already told her....but i think u should go with her. I mean u should go out on the weekend to make sure she stays alright and not get into ne trouble. That would be the best thing to do if she decides to go cuz that way u'll know she's safe...in a way.....
ne wayz srry can't help out more g2g byez!
~Luvz~
~Chica~

I'm sure this is not the answer you're looking for but here goes.

While it is admirable that you are opposed to substance abuse, it is obvious that your values are vastly different from hers. I doubt if your ex asked for your advice. Ordinarily, it just doesn’t work when you take it upon yourself to stop someone else from making bad choices. I think you just need to accept that. Trying to change someone else is like banging your head on a brick wall. It only feels good when you stop.

Agreed ^^

And also shes not your gf anymore, you can't control what she does, whether or not you still care. Although I do understand your only trying to help, she may see it as you interfering and trying to ruin her fun. Let her find out for herself, us girls are very stubborn! xx

My boyfriend hates me drinking, but I get annoyed when he tries to stop me. I love him, but he can't control my life. I know he just cares about me, but he has to trust that I am ok when I drink. You need to trust that your ex will be safe and make the right decisions. You can't make them for her.

ok thanks guys!

she is your ex but that dose not mean you cant care about her, trust me i know i still care about my ex. but the truth is it's her life and she going to live it the was she wants. Hopefully nothing bad happens to her. and hopefully she is only around people she trust when she drinks, the only thing you can do is tell her how you feel and if anything dose happen to happen be there for her, she only going to learn form her own mistakes.

no, shes around a tun of guys who want a poa (piece of ass) and her friend is wasted same with her sis so they cant stop her...,but thanks again1

sounds like you still got feeling, one way or the other still with this girl.. let her make her own choice and she can then figure out whats best for her or not.. maybe she is trying to get to you by doing it.. like i always say... talking is the best solution..

hun, you really cant stop her from drinking. its her discion or not.

again guys thanks a tun, i know what i'm going to do and whats going to happen, thanks for all the advice! god bless!

i am in no place to give love advice!