Need luv help

i need someone to point me in the right direction. See, my boyfriend is really sweat and all, and he's true to me, but, i think i'm in love with his best friend...
I don't like to talk to my boyfriend over the phone, and i don't have any tolerence for him, but for some reason i'm always in a good mood around his friend, and he makes me feel really good about myself and the world.

Please help me!
-Feline Fatigue-

how long have you and your boyfriend been dating?
if for a longe time maybe you are bored with him. love cange over time.
if you havent dated for a long time maybe you just thought he was good and decided that he wasnt.
i hoped i help

Emma

my boyfriend brings me on trips and stuff, yeah, but for some reason, even in the begining, i don't know. I have fun with him, but i have more fun with his friend. I would never cheat, so what do i do? i don't want to hurt him, especially since we've been going out since the end of school and beginning of summer and all through to today.

if you dont want to hurt him you better be sure that you really like his friend. all brakeups hurt. it just depends on how long the sting lastes. if you really like him tell him carefully. dont crush him. let him down with a kiss and hug and always be friends.
Emma

i really think Tony likes me, but...Tommy really really likes me.

i know, that's why i need help! i really think i love Tony, and i write that fluently! i can't do that with anyone else...

Tony set me and Tommy up, then me Tommy and Tony got together a lot and I got to know Tony better and...AHH! I don't know what to do!

You say you "love" your boyfriend, when you're saying you like his best friends. If you say you THINK you love your boyfriend you don't. Don't hurt him any longer, he deserves better than that. Its quite clear to me you'd rather be with this Tony guy, but I think you can't. Hes your boyfriends best mate, and their friendship would be over if you two got together. Dump your boyfriend save him from even more heart break and give guys a break for a while.

*best friend

Wow i sound quite fierce..i don't mean to sound aggressive, but you're saying you THINK you love him. If you have to question yourself then huni its not love.

thank you for the help! don't worry, no aggresivness taken! you're talking to Feline Fatigue, after all.

i'd say beckyz got a point... i mean just think it threw... is Tony worth breaking tommys heart? will tony accept you if you break up with his best friend... are you ready to indanger their friendship plus maybe urs along... and lets say u do break up and u and tony do get together won't you feel always guilty around tommy?

yeah, that's why i'm asking

i still need help!!!!!!!!