just out of curiosity, let me no wat you would do in this situat

im with my guy n i love him to bits and i know that im wanting to start a career that will meen i will have to leave him he doesnt know this yet, but when i go i wouldnt want a special moment cos it will make you think of what your leavin behind and i am dead set or doing my career that i dont want things to change my mind....

I whouldve personally felt astonished by the whole thing.
But, as usual..
When I am deeply in love with someone, it seems that I always support what they want to do.
If it is truley something they have a passion for.
As for the last moment, I dont think its right..
Firstly, I dont think the 'last moment' whould be as real as the previous one.
Why not make it your last?
If you went ahead and done it, then you whould have nothing but concern the whole time and scared feelings.
Just thinking about what you are loosing, it is an eye opener and makes things worse then they ever started to be on both.
Why whould you want a last memory, with such emotions that the problem arose.
I think that if you know its over, then pull away slowly.
Do not push towards each other one more time then go.
I just dont see it as beeing a good moment as it was before.
For some people it could be a very bad moment.
Others maybe not as much, it depends on where you attraction is.

Disappointing and heartbreaking? Yes. But it's time to cut your losses and move on with your life. It would be sad but I would probably just be grateful for the good times during the 8 months.

It sounds to me like the guy is just using his purported career goal as a pretext for ending the relationship.