when you love another....

jimmeh: not to be mean, but shut up.

i agree with angelina, try not to get too stressed over this.

i would break up with your boyfriend, because its not fair to lead him on, but give it time before/if you go back with your ex.

Never settle. Don't be with someone who doesn't make you happy and doesn't put you first...it never works....You find yourself giving away pieces of yourself until there is nothing left to give and you resent the other person.

Bill is right..

And besides that point, you should focus on getting school done instead of having relationship issues messing with your mind.
I was curious what kind of guy this was when your parents didnt want him around you.
Then I was curious of what your parents and his parents are trying to do when they 'both' didnt want you together.
You have to give you parent some room every now and then.
Do not absolutely let them run over top but give them their own space.
You have to work it out, its not a control matter.
Most issues with this lies in the fact that most people cannot set down and have a deep convosation with either of their parents.
And until then, most parents will have no idea of the debth of something they are trying to split apart.
But you should also hear their views and why they dont want you together.
You have to come to a conclusion point.
If you have good communication with your parents thats great.
If not then you are sure to run into many problems down the road..
Just dont mess up your school over relationship issues..
As for the other guy, a controlling relationship is only a one sided relationship.
Drop the moron and just go about with your life.
Right now you have two parents who are already trying to guide you the right way.
Dont have some random guy try to 'force guide' you the way he wants you to be.

i am sorry i cant help you but i hope it all works out

Break up with your bf you obviously don't love him as much as you do your ex. If your parents dont want you with your ex then its probably for the best. Parents are right once in a while. Even if you and your ex love eachother its never going to work because of your parents. Just let it go. As hard as it is, just do it. Find yourself a better bf.
'If you really love someone then you'll let them go.'

i want to know why your parents wont let you see your ex.... bc if they dont want you to it is obviously for a good reason so i mean listen to them....and if you dont like the guy you have now....stop playin with him....dump him already....maybe all you need right now is to be single bc u r obviously quite confused and not to be rude but when did dating revolve around whether or not you get gifts...? just a question...hope this helped....luv yas mwah

-kayla-

umm my thought are simple. if you really "love" your x then arent you living a lie being with your boyfriend who you dont love.

Emma

If you want to be with your ex for material things you need to get your head checked. If that's the reason you're confused I'd say your ex is way too good for you. If you genuinely want to be with HIM I'd say drop the new guy like a bad habit and be with your ex. I've dealt with family not wanting me to be with a guy but they came around. Six years later we've split up and him and my mother still talk regularly. At first she HATED him with a passion and now she gets pissed when he don't call. Follow your heart miss lady...and do listen to Taylor - you're very young and you have lots of time so don't rush. Don't be stressed over boys...trust me it's NO good. :) Take your time.