My friend is 14 years old & she is having a baby..............re

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//Ari\\

i agree if you think you read to have sex then you should stand up for for what you did you made the choice live with the out come sorry if that sound mean i just dont get it she is 14 having sex. no 14 year old is stable enough she still growing hello. well i do hoep the best for your friend. sorry if i sounded mean i really didnt mean to.

I actually agree with what Tears said...but it's not the point.

Tell her to be in for a long haul. And i mean a LOOONG haul. Raising a kid won't just come with a wagon...

//Ari\\

Born! Haven't seen you around lately. :P

//Ari\\

damn.... sex at 14? and pregnant too? this is why no one should ever go to an all girls school.. well that sucks for her cause she's gonna have a rough life. that was the chance she took though.
good luck
-A

damn a baby at 14.....that's not going to be easy...all i have to say is support her because she is going to need ur help along with others. Raising a child is not easy especially if ur this young. Best of luck to ur friend and take care. =)
~Luvz~
~Chica~

my friend kept her pregnancy a secret for a couple of months, but in the end, it WILL become quite obvious... talk to her about abortion first and get her to talk to her parents because having a baby is life changing. i should know.. i used to walk around and see old school people and theyd ask me if i was pregnant. if she wants to keep it, tell her she wont beable to hide it and to let everyone just accept it. i think its still young but so was i... so just support her...

Tell her she should have worn a condum. Actually, tell her not to bang random guys. That works too.

some clinics(very rarely) do perform abortions inbetween 2-5 months into the pregnancy....my advice ....she chose to have unprotected sex(i'm asuming) she created a living thing and it deserves to live it's life....she created it she lives with the consiquences ....i didnt mean to sound rude or anything sorry if it sounds like it
ALL THE BEST
*~SaRaH~*

very long and boring so i didnt read...it's about the abortion issue!!! i live in australia and they do the 2-5 months thing here .....rare in america i no and i am aware it is only if the womens health is at risk...your very smart!!!

*~SaRaH~*

lol...no it's not completely illegal.......yeah but bob got a bit to complicated for me lol...
~*SaRaH*~

ouch bob that was harsh

"my friend is 14 and she is 3 months pregnant. She is thinking about an abortion. She is due in a couple of months"

3 months pregnant and due in a couple of months? That's going to be one majorly premature baby!
Also, if she's thinking about an abortion now, go to this site:

http://home.ripway.com/2004-2/65322/abortion.jpg

This is at 4½ months.

Ahh so i WAS right!

In my very first post here i said that abortion probably wasn't an option anymore but i wasn't sure...

Sorry, i just feel a tiny bit educated. Go me. ^.^

//Ari\\

Lol Ari! Some clinics will do it and as you can see the baby is practically formed at this stage.

oh boy.. thats really sad. your friend shouldnt have been having sex at 14. just wow... and i dont think she should get an abortion.. it isnt the childs fault. and if she doesnt want to raise the child, there is always adoption, so the child can have a chance at a real life. but she is going to have to tell someone about it. she needs to face the consequences
...sarah...

wow Kim...that site is so sad, it really opens your eyse though thank you for sharing

i agree with kori.....i wouldnt have an abortion...so what if shes pregnet...it happens....if her parents already know why should she care that the students know....if she tells her parents she wants to put it up for adoption 1. im sure her parents would be realived and 2. your not killing a innnocent little human being.....just tell her to put it up for adoption

BOB Y DID U LOK MY THREAD!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THE TITTLE DIDNT HAVE SWEARIN IT HAD STARS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

There's a serious error in the math here. If someone is 3 months pregnant, then she CAN"T be due in a couple months.

If she is now 3 months along, then she would be due in 6 months.

I'm surprised nobody noticed that (myself included)

I've noticed it before, but i edited it... :P

//Ari\\

"3 months pregnant and due in a couple of months? That's going to be one majorly premature baby!"

I noticed! lol. :P