ex bf troubles

Give it time. He probably doesn't want anything more than friendship right now -- especially if your relationship ended as badly as you made it sound. Sometimes a close friend is better than a boyfriend who could just dump you again (vicious cycle - trust me on that one). Just enjoy what you've got, because greed can be an ugly monster that can cause more problems than it's worth.

i had a guy and we were together for 1 mouth and after he dumped me he treted me like crap!he says all the stuff to my face and it really hurt my feallings he made me cry alot!! if he came back from a different state he would still do that! happy that he moved away

heya!
if the friendship is really really strong then don't ruin what you got, unless you think you can't hide those feelings anymore, just follow your heart and it'll guide you to where u wanna be :)
xxxxx

Follow your heart

I think you should tell him you need to tell him something really important and just say it. If he's a good friend and he doesn't feel the same he'll respect you for telling him and will be careful not to hurt your feelings. If things don't work out, at least you'll know you can completely trust this guy.