12 years and he's leaving ..

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    19 years ago

    Nobody has to answer this, I just need to come to terms with it. The boy I love, and have known for 12 years is moving to Spain in 6 months.. his mum is being so selfish just because she wants to move out there - It's not fair! :'(

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    19 years ago

    Not in particular, her mum and dad live there now, but she has had this little fantasy for years

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    It's not her being selfish. If it's something she's wanted to for years and she is now fullfilling her dreams I'd say that's pretty damn great. Get over it dear. I know it sucks as my best friend left when I was 13 and I went 5 years without seeing her. Though I wasn't in love with her I know losing a best friend is very hard. Spend your time with him...as much as you can and cherish every second. Don't blame it on his mom just spend the time you can with him so you don't regret being bitter about it...

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    19 years ago

    Natalie you succeeded in making me cry, something not many people can do. And yeah you're right, I just need to spend time with him and make it count. Thankyou :)

  • ღ*KiM*ღ
    19 years ago

    What do you mea "whats that mean?"

  • EpithetPoet
    19 years ago

    pfft i move places every 3 years, heartbreak is all a part of life and learning how to grow and take the best of that situation is what really helps you be stronger in life. least you have internet so you never really lose touch.
    -A

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    Didn't mean to make you cry I would just hate to know you didn't spend time with him. When my friend left...(Amanda is her name) we were mad at each other. We hadn't talked in like a week. We got into a fight about something so stupid! She called me after she got to her Dad's house far away from here and told me what happened. I broke down into tears and regretted everything I'd said to her. She was going through a really rough time and I missed it...I was mad over something so dumb so I didn't get to hang out with her before she left. Believe me proving my 'point' was not worth the time I lost nor the friendship I almost gave up. Don't be bitter...take it in stride and make the best of it. Think of him going to explore a whole new world....Good for him. Think positively