I might be pregnant...

  • Avrii Monrielle
    19 years ago

    they have schooling on comps,and home school..but i kno u want the big ones so this is what you do:
    Tell ur bf that if u quit he has to as well!

    even if u try to get an abortion the baby might be in a good spot,meaning if they take it out youd bleed to death (my neice couldnt die because of that)

    You always have the choice of adoption ....
    and
    u might get attatched to it.

    umm
    im always around for support :)
    shoujo_star@myway.com

  • Emma
    19 years ago

    umm...

    you did make the choice to have sex with your boyfriend and you didnt protect yourself.so it is kinda partly your fault and partly his.

    Your boyfriend is 18 he should know no to have unprotected sex.You should know better too. Now for the big problem you might be pregnent.

    You can go to school up till you have to drop out. Get a tutor be home schooled but not go through an abortion because even though is seems good know you are going to have to live with killing a child.

    sorry i didnt think i helped
    Emma

  • Kayla
    19 years ago

    I think that if you are totally against abortion dont do it... you could always have your baby adopted...if you are pregnant... you could have an open adoption too...if you're lucky. and there is always just giving birth to it but then not seeing it so you dont get attached and then putting it up for adoption....i mean it all depends on you and your boyfriend and your family.....either way it is a sticky situation....hope all works out for the best.

    -kayla-

  • EpithetPoet
    19 years ago

    talk to your parents about it, as scary and suicidal as that sounds. they might be really understanding about it. my dad, who is a strict military man, just told me a few months ago that if i ever get pregnant that i shouldnt feel obligated to get married and have no future; that he and my mom would be glad to take care of the baby.
    dont assume they'll help you though, you gotta get prepared for the worst.
    -A

  • BloodScars
    19 years ago

    give it up for adoption! thats my solution.....^_^ hope i helped lol no but seriously if you dont want to kill the baby or you dont want to throw your life away....give it up for adoption....best way to go i say....

  • Exquisite_Emily
    19 years ago

    You can leave the baby in front of a Fire Station. Its legal because its a place of safety. Then it will go up for adoption.

  • Not Bulletproof
    19 years ago

    Good luck, I hope you're not pregnant. And if you are...sorry buddy, but you're shit out of luck.

    -Mortie.

  • EpithetPoet
    19 years ago

    Well Tyler i dont really think i'll ever believe in God as i think it's a tad of a silly notion. I like most of the stories and morals that the bible has but too many negative things have come from religions. My personal preference is to live life how i like while still being a good person, without religion.
    But anyway this thread isnt about that, i just wanted to state that.
    -A

  • M
    19 years ago

    Yet true is it not? The truth isn't always nice. It was irresponsible, so why do it? Would it kill you to put on a peice of rubber?

  • Renee
    19 years ago

    Shit, if stressing means I'll skip my period maybe I should stress more often.

  • Erin
    19 years ago

    Wow, sometimes people are just ignorant. You said that you KNOW it was wrong to have had unprotected sex, yet you are afraid of the consequences. Why weren't you afraid of the consequences WHEN you had the sex? See, this is what happens when people don't think before they act. Nobody's perfect, but c'mon lets be real about this, you all could use your minds a bit more. Hopefully you're not ignorant with your child around 'cause that child deserves nothing but the best, and it probably won't get the best but, oh well, this is what makes America what it is I guess.

    USE A FREAKIN' CONDOM NEXT TIME. THANKS.

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    If you lay down and don't strap up why on earth should the baby pay for it? That doesn't make any damn sense. I wouldn't give a damn if she was 12...if she WILLING opened her legsshe must deal with the consequences. You KNOWINGLY had sex without a condom so face the outcome.

  • mydearestsuicide
    19 years ago

    its noty the babys fault... try adoption

  • Lu
    19 years ago

    I agree with iBritt , you MIGHT be pregnant . Wait and see before you send your stress level through the roof . And if your not I'd make damn sure not to let it happen again .Once is a mistake ..twicw is stupidity . Hope all turns out well for you .

  • Lu
    19 years ago

    Ah crap !!! this post is 3 weeks old ..Wonder how it turned out for her ?????

  • ~~Fire Angel~~
    19 years ago

    i think its odd for people to think killing a part of yourself is okay... thats saying hey i can always just get an abortion so why worry about it??? ummm bad thing to tell a person... dont worry dont face your mistakes ... you dont even ever have to grow as a person... murder is the answer.... yeah do that....

  • RaNdOmGaL
    19 years ago

    i'm not gonna judge you because it is your life but, if you have an abortion, it will be like murdering an innocent baby!!! you made the mistake of having unprotected sex, even if you didn't mean to get pregnant, you still made the mistake, so now, no offence, but ya gonna have to live with it!!!
    i'm not against teenage pregnancies but i am a complete anti-abortionist!!!
    you can't just kill it because it is gonna get in the way of your plans, you put it there right in the way of your life so now live with it!!!
    you could put it up for adoption, foster care or maybe there might even be a relative that would help you look after it so you can still go to school? there's always a way for it to work, just look carefully!!!

    good luck!!!
    luv RaNdOmGaL xxx

  • Exquisite_Emily
    19 years ago

    You might be pregnant?
    I suggest finding out before you post a thread.
    You can always put it up for adoption..
    There are people who would love you have you child, that is if you have one.
    And, also if your religious shouldnt you be wating till your married to have sex?
    You need to start thinking, and get a boyfriend your own age.
    -Emily-

  • Truest Lies
    19 years ago

    If you're pregnant, then you dont have a fetus inside you, you have a human being, who God would have given you, under the unhappy circumstances, to look after and protect.

    If you're not pregnant, then you learned a valuable lesson, and, I hope, will be more careful in the future.

  • ღPrEciiOuz~KiiZeZღ
    19 years ago

    I DON'T AGREE WITH NONE OF U!!!!
    i know its wrong to "maybe" be pregnant @ this age...but gurl...come one...everything happends 4 a reason...and just the tought of abortion gets on my nerves...i don't anybody should do it. And come on now...if she wants to have a older Boyfriend...let her...i'm 15 and my boyfriend is 18...whats the deal???...i mean if u go out with someone ur own age...they all think about one thing anywayz...which is sex sex sex...thats not cool...u need somebody with more mind...to guide u thru life...that don't mean u have to do what he says u have to do...just think about it...i think that baby...well i think it will do a lot of good 4 u...i know u have the whole school thing that u r worried about but like everybody else said...u can get home schooled...which ain't so bad...just give it a tought...take care and i hope u make the right decision

  • Natalie84
    19 years ago

    Ok twinkie above me...are you serious. A baby is a good thing for a 15 year old girl? How is that? If she is not financially, mentally, and emotionally stable to care for a child how is it a good thing? Please enlighten me. Guys your age are only thinking of sex...so what do you think your 18 year old boyfriend is thinking about...barbie dolls? Seriously...an 18 year old MAN dating a little twinkie is a bit strange. Though I understand people of all ages can fall in love a man seeking a child normally means one thing. Use your brain. You just told a 15 year old girl that having a child is a good thing even though she is still just a child herself. Your maturity level can be seen all throughout that post...I think you need to reevaluate a lot of things in your life. I think you're confused about a lot of things. The bigger mind you're talking about that will guide you through life wants your ass. Get a grip.

  • Truest Lies
    19 years ago

    I have a sister who is 15. I know that if she got pregnant she would keep the baby, and she would probably home-school and look after it.
    She would be sorry for her mistakes, but she would accept them.
    And she would be a great mum.

    By the way, have you found out if you're REALLY pregnant just now?
    Or was it a false alarm?

    Good Luck.
    beth.