Danielle
19 years ago
My boyfriend is compltely in love with me, he's graduated, we live in this really really small town so there really isn't ever sh!t to do, so I'm with him all the time and I love being with him. Well I work whre I can talk on line all the time so I talk to him on line a lot everyday , and I go see him everday. My sister keeps telling me Im' chasing him,. because I'M always over there and IM always buying him stuff, and IM always calling him, and IM alwasy donig everything, but guys, he's so so so so perfect, and amazing, but my sister really wasn't lyin.. I do feel like I put more into the relationship than he does... but I dunno. I cant' fight wit him. I know that's the last thing he wants. |
dani
19 years ago
things may be different once he has graduated.......guys are like that i leave my man to it we talk all the time but when he is with his mates i play second best i know that will change ....maybe....but i know its me he loves and the one he's gunna come home to to at the end of the day im gunna be the one he needs when things gets tough and im gunna be the one thats gunna look after him when he's ill...i dont know all i know is that i love him and he has a life.... |
EpithetPoet
19 years ago
well look at it this way, his friends ahve all graduated and most of them are probably going to university in the fall so he'll probably want to spend as much time with them as possible. i dont really see anything wrong in that. give him space child. but still let him know that you want to be around him too. |
Lydia O
19 years ago
This isn't to say he doesn't love you ... BUT ... if he knows he can have you around whenever, anytime he wants, that may have conditioned him to take you for granted. Your sister is at least partially right because a relationship should be close to 50-50. In this case you are the one making all the effort and he's become used to it. |
☆Vintage Butterfly Star☆
19 years ago
You should talk to him, you need to explain the way you feel. If he thinks your always gonna be there for him, he'll begin to take you for granted. |