Would this p!ss you off?

  • Danielle
    19 years ago

    My boyfriend is compltely in love with me, he's graduated, we live in this really really small town so there really isn't ever sh!t to do, so I'm with him all the time and I love being with him. Well I work whre I can talk on line all the time so I talk to him on line a lot everyday , and I go see him everday. My sister keeps telling me Im' chasing him,. because I'M always over there and IM always buying him stuff, and IM always calling him, and IM alwasy donig everything, but guys, he's so so so so perfect, and amazing, but my sister really wasn't lyin.. I do feel like I put more into the relationship than he does... but I dunno. I cant' fight wit him. I know that's the last thing he wants.

    And today, he talked about ... baby imiss you ilove you i cant wait to see you, ima hold you all night blah blah blah... and he says well daves' here to get me, i dont know when I'll be back... Im like. What?. Okay then. He was lke I'll get a hold of you later.
    I mean he talks about spending the next 80 years together, and when I graduate he's gonna take me with him wherever he goes. He's SMART. nd he's waiting for me. I know he loves me.

    So I shouldnt' be mad right? I just hate when ppl make plans and break them. It's my biggest pet peve... And he's with All his friends everyday... every day. Swear. They'll just show up outta no where. EVERYDAY. They're all graudated too. I mean I'm friends with is friends, I was when they were in school, but still. I love my baby, and I want him... Not his friends.

    Im' confused. :'( I'm in love with my boyfriend. He's the most beautiful person in the world. HE CRIES IN THE NOTEBOOK. He really is perfect.

    But his friend are alwasy around, and he breaks plans with me all the time. What should I do? :-( Ive tried talking to him about it.

  • Jaime
    19 years ago

    He really shouldn't be breaking his plans with you, but he probably just believes friends are more important than girls. It's not personally against you, just his opinions. So if he loves you as much as he says he does, I wouldn't worry too much about it.

  • dani
    19 years ago

    things may be different once he has graduated.......guys are like that i leave my man to it we talk all the time but when he is with his mates i play second best i know that will change ....maybe....but i know its me he loves and the one he's gunna come home to to at the end of the day im gunna be the one he needs when things gets tough and im gunna be the one thats gunna look after him when he's ill...i dont know all i know is that i love him and he has a life....

  • Jaime
    19 years ago

    Someday, yes, he probably will always put you before his friends. Maybe it's just a phase?

  • EpithetPoet
    19 years ago

    well look at it this way, his friends ahve all graduated and most of them are probably going to university in the fall so he'll probably want to spend as much time with them as possible. i dont really see anything wrong in that. give him space child. but still let him know that you want to be around him too.
    -A

  • Lydia O
    19 years ago

    This isn't to say he doesn't love you ... BUT ... if he knows he can have you around whenever, anytime he wants, that may have conditioned him to take you for granted. Your sister is at least partially right because a relationship should be close to 50-50. In this case you are the one making all the effort and he's become used to it.

    If your main complaint is that he breaks plans, then just tell him how important it is to you to follow through on plans you have made together. Try making your plans at least 4-5 days in advance and then keep reminding him how much you're looking forward to whatever it is that you have planned.

  • ☆Vintage Butterfly Star☆
    19 years ago

    You should talk to him, you need to explain the way you feel. If he thinks your always gonna be there for him, he'll begin to take you for granted.
    My boyfriend did the same, so i started hanging out with my friends more and he soon got the point.
    I hope things get better for you XxX