advice needed

ever since my bf cheated on me we've had petty arguments about everything. i've forgiven him and he doesnt see her any more. but we cant stop. i get jealous really easily, and i've got more insecure since the incident. i really dont know what to do, i want it to work and so does he.

any advice to resolve all this would be appreciated. thanx xxx

tell him how much you want to forgive and forget but the after effects are too hard to deal with. i think i would have broken up with him to be honest. if he does it once, how can you guarantee he wont do it again?
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he said sorry. i've tried telling him him how i feel. but hes kinda worried about lads around me bcoz im a natural flirt. its just how i am. i wudnt do anythin to hurt him ever. and we did split up for about 2 weeks. but i couldnt stop thinkin about how much i loved him and how much i wanted it to work.

hmm well i think if you're a natural flirt then you need to give him some space as well. but tell him how you feel about the situation. i'm sure if he loves you he wouldnt do it again.
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It's natural that you'll be worried about him beibg around other girls. He did it once and he could do it again... but he might not, he may have realised that he was stupid to do something like that.
Just thinking, could you be starting arguments cos you still feel as though you can't trust him and hearing him apologize makes you feel better? sorry !!! i posted it twice !!!

It's natural that you'll be worried about him being around other girls. He did it once and he could do it again... but he might not, he may have realised that he was stupid to do something like that.
Just thinking, could you be starting arguments cos you still feel as though you can't trust him and hearing him apologize makes you feel better? Cos i know that's what i did when my ex cheated on me....

it doesnt seem to me like you forgave him. But he shouldn't have cheated on you in the first place, if you're always arguing and it's not fun to be around each other, maybe its not worth it anymore. Try to trust him a little more, that might help. I understand it might be hard, but everyone deserves a second chance right?

He cheated on you, and he worries about you being around other guys? Huh. Well, if you want to forgive him, thats your personal decision, but if he cheats on you again that's your own fault. Don't let yourself be too hurt if it happens.