Cheat

About 8 months ago i was goin out with this guy and then he moved away we'd been goin out for 6 months and i went to this club and my mate went up to this guy and asked me to dance with him so i thought yea i might aswell then wen we were dancing he came onto me ... i backed off and went to find my other friend. then wen it came to tell my bf i cudn't coz i didn't wana hurt him and i kno it wasn't the right thing to do but i kept it secret. then the other day he found out but we are not goin out nemore but were planing to give it another shot and i tried to explain that i didn't mean for it 2 happen but he wouldn't listen bcoz i've cheated on him b4 that.

i really regret it coz he wont give me another chance even tho i gave him like 7 chances coz he kept goin out with me then dumpin me for someone else or just for no reason and i really don't kno what to do i kno i brought this on myself but i really love him. please help!!!

Personally I don't think it's love. I think it's lust cause both are so close to each other. That's what I get from it but if I'm wrong then ok but I don't think you love him. To go on or not to go on that is the question.

I have a friend who is in the same relationship as you, it doesn't exactly work out. I mean if either of you truly loved eachother than he wouldn't keep breaking up with you for other girls and you wouldn't keep cheating on him. Yea I mean ppl make mistakes but they learn from them as well. This is the fourth time I've gone out with my bf b/c the other 3 times I left him for another guy, but I didn't really like him as much as I do now. I learned from it and he trusts me, yes he has his doubts but you have to learn to trust. You can't have a relationship without trust. I don't think you love eachother as much as you think. You should really stop cheating on ppl, like they say 'once a cheater always a cheater' but hey some ppl change.

i kno ... and i mean this ... i would never cheat on him again ... i love him and i'm tryin to get him to trust me again ... i'm just not sure how too

You can't make someone trust you. Its hard to gain trust once you've lost it. You just have to give it time. He can't hold the grudge forever but he needs his time to get over it. When you go out without him just tell him who you're going with and the details that way he won't think you're keeping something from him. Don't bother with the whole begging thing as Tyler says. It isn't going to get him to change his mind it just makes you seem more pathetic. But hey if ur bf has left you b4 2 well then he has to see ur point as well.

forget about it hes with someone else now ... no point me tryin to win him back nemore