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could you please read the title cheat and tell me what you think?
thanks x sam x

Not to belittle your effort of trying to help people out (I'm all for helping people, it's one of my life ambitions), but I think you should rephrase your comment. Maybe say something like "I will try to help you out" or "I will give my opinion on it" instead of "I will try to answer it." When you say that, it makes you sound as if you think you're omniscient, which makes you come off as pompous and conceited. You don't want to offend the person you're trying to help before they even ask for it. Just some friendly advice from one helper to another.

Timothy Bledsoe

heya again ... thanx for your advise, my ex is saying that he still loves me and that but he doesn't trust me at all to make it work again ... what do i do? =(

i said what you told me to say and he sed ... u sed it all the first time baby...then u hurt me again ='( ... what do i say now? ... god i must be pathetic i don't even kno what to say to get him back =(

hey hidden tears, go to cheat and read my advice, I know it might not be what you want to hear but I know how you feel in a kinda similar sort of way.

Tyler, seriously promises aren't enough sometimes. How can you trust someone when they've broken the same promises over and over? Its completly pointless. You can't even bring God into this either I mean get real, it has nothing to do with anyone. Oh and FYI yea God would forgive her, but its a sin to lie and cheat in the first place. Yes we all lie but dont bother with the whole God thing it doesn't apply to this situation.

hey sparkles ... tylers doin a good job helpin me here, hes listenin to wat i'm saying and he's thinkin things over shes helped me loads so i don't think you shud be arguing with her.

oops sorry tyler ... do you think i should meet up with him and try help win his trust back that way aswell?

Im not arguing Im giving my opinon as well. You can't beg for someone to forgive you. Im pretty sure you told your bf the same excuse last time. So all Im saying is apparently both of you have trouble keeping promises and staying together so maybe your relationship isn't meant to be. Im just telling Tyler not to bother with the whole God thing because its just offensive to me.

just forget everything i found out that hes got a new gf now so i don't see the point thanks anyway

Tyler I don't need advice from you, I can get my own advice. Im just giving my opinion to both you and hidden tears. she needs an opposite point of view, not only the positive side.

I meant no kind of disrespect. But you're only 13. You've don't have enough experiences to relate to other people problems. What you're saying is all a bunch of things you THINK will help, and in the end, might not.

If you sincerely want good advice, love, life, and friendship wise.

I recommend asking Bob Shanks or Bret Higgins.

This is just my opinion, if you take offense.

Oh well.

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(")-(") Arrivederci!

hahahaha lmao now hes tellin me to go up 2 newcastle ... coz hes ther for a while ... and meet him ... so that wud cost me shit loads and then he sed if it all goes well i'll leave my gf for you.

Hidden tears, why waste your money on him? HE HAS ANOTHER GF!!! what the hell??? who would waste their time and money to go c a guy who has another girlfriend??? Why would you stay with him if he said "if it all goes well i'll leave my gf for you"? that is so dumb. You need to stop wasting ur time on him cuz apparently he doesn't love you as much as you think.

I am fighting the urge to kill myself.

A lot of stuff....

You wouldn't understand, kid. You're only 13.

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Still think you can help me?

... i didn't think so. oh well.

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hm... well i'm out of high school now, so that part doesn't matter. it's the memories that hurt... i wish i could just wipe my mind....

hiya could u have a look at the title wierd......... please i know he'd never hurt me but i still want your opinion thank you x

Tyler bless your heart!!

tyler sorry i messed up on my private message, the last part was correct i think its i need advice, any advice or something like that

ooo ooo try to answer my problem.....i love this person and he loves me back...but we r to scared to admit it...so we keep ingnoring eachother...hurry i see him in exactly 9 hours ^_^

thats how i feel, but i cant call my b/f cuz he doesnt make an effort to call me eirther. he hasnt made an effort to see me eirther in like 2 weeks, and this is when i need him the most

tyler the thing is, the only way to contact him is his friends phone, he doesnt like i call him on that phone. our 1 month is coming up, and i dont want to not see him on that day, but i have a feeling hes not gonna come down for a long time. I cant really call him other wise i know for sure that he will drop me. and if he wasnt my first love and i didnt lose him for 2 1/2 years, i wouldnt worry so much but i dont want to lose him again

yeah you were too late for that advice sorry.....he he thats ok i see him on monday and tuesday and well....whatever

nikki hey gurlie figure out who the chic is and ask her questions

tyler you are very sweet for helping all these ppl by the way your advice helped we talked the other day. and that was so nice

Is this advice offered only on matters of love and romance?

hey its me again, u helped me with some guy problems i had (at the top of this forum) and i met up with him and talked things ova and we r now back togetha thank you =D

alright tyler
i like this chick and she now likes me but before that she's liked this alex guy. stuff happened with alex's ex and i sorta manipulated some stuff. in the end she likes me. hooray. i should be happy which i partially am but i'm mostly angry or confused but i dont know why (or about what). so any idea why i'm so crappy instead of happy?

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i had a thread about this yesterday but i want to ask you since your a guy you might know what i should do. What would you do if you have a gf and then your x gf from the year before (that left you but you still liked for a really long time and tend to start liking agian when u hang out with her) came up to you and said that she liked you for a long time, about 2 weeks before school started (a month+)

im the x girlfriend that likes him. i also dont know if i should even tell him. he is happy now with who he is with, i want him to be happy. i just wish it was with me. should i keep my feelings a secrit or confess? what if he tells all his friends and his gf that i have these feelings for him. how can i bare that, everyone laughing at me and his gf being pissed at me for having those feelings.

I already got advise on this but i want to know your opinion on what i should do. I just got over my ex who moved to Europe. Now my friends are trying to set me up with a guy who broke up with his g/f a few months ago. They say it would be great if we went out. I'm not really sure if i'm ready to rush into a new relationship. What should i do? Actually i'm not even sure i'm over my ex yet. We both still talk to our friends about eachother and still say we love eachother.

y did he leave you?or you leave him? if u guys still say i love you to eachother. y arent u together?

It's really complicated. His parents made him move to Europe. He didn't want to break up with e. My friend told him if he didn't break up with me. One of us would end up hurt. He told her no but she went ahead and did it anyways. She told me he was breaking up with him and told him i was breaking up with him. We didn't talk for about 4 or 5 months. He told my friend he loved me and wanted me back. So it's really complicated. I don't know what is gonna happen next...

can anyone help me? :) ok. i like a guy. his name is ****. my two friends, sam and nick wrote him a note sayin i like him on the last day of school last year. then he talked to my friend Nick and sed he liked me for the whole year... i didnt see him through most of the summer except at a party. me and him(and a bunch ofother ppl) were in a pool 'wrestling' and ' playing a dodgeball like game. i came over to him and he was like 'She wont hurt me. i know why she wont hurt me---' to make him shut up i then nicely informed him i would and i twisted his arm behind his back. :D. then towards the middle of the party i had to go home to say GB to my father (hes weird). i asked my friend what time it was. and i got out of the pool. he sed something like' Lauren where are you going? are you leaving?' i sed ill be back. but when i came back up, his mom had come to pick him up....on the first day of school he was acting weird, when we were in the cluster, i was on one side and he was on the other(the walls were open) and i think he was looking/staring at me. then whenever he walks by me he blows on my head.and now he keeps stealing my stuff, like in clg it in his desk and crap....GRRR..does he like me?????? i dont know if i can trust my friend nick..hes kind of a..unreliable souce sometimes... HELP