RAPE or NOT?

  • Madison
    20 years ago

    Allright, i just need some info here..

    Well with out naming names, heres the story. Our swimming ass. Coach, is in his early 20's and i'm on an all girls team, later in the year, my friend has been sending me some of the convostations that they have been having over the internet, and lets just say that they arnt very pleasnt, its to the point where he said that they should "hook up and have some fun" my friend said no, and has kinda been ignoring him.

    Not to much later, my other friend was talking to him, and they have had the same convo... i think its just gone to far, but is there something that i can do to help? Becuase i have heard that he has done this in the past... never actually raped anyone, but i'm afraid that it could lead to that in the future...

    i need answers!

  • Madison
    20 years ago

    Yea, would it be concidered it, if he actually have never touched them? just talked dirty to them?

    My friend called him a rappest and he started to stop, but thats when i heard that he went to my next friend and started the whole cycle all over again.. i just dont know if i should even act on this one..

  • Madison
    20 years ago

    Aug now more and more people know about it, and its gonna just blow up in our faces.. i dont know what to do, he's a really good coach, but just sometimes does stuff like this...... gosh what do i do

  • Madison
    20 years ago

    see yea i know that if me and my friends dont do something, it could end up very bad, but i dont want the parents to worrie, and i just dont want it to be such a big deal. i know that if we say something, he will get fired, and alot of my teamates like him as a coach, and they would then get disapointed, and the parents would be and the head coach, and it just doenst make any sense

  • Madison
    20 years ago

    Hey everyone that has helped heres my e-mail
    please give out more advice!!

    do not post your email on the boards for your own safety...pm it

  • Katie Silva
    20 years ago

    wow, i really think u should report that, it sounds like the begining of a rape story!

  • Jessica
    20 years ago

    girl report him i have been raped and we dont want 2 c our loved ones have it dont 2 them we all change when it happends 2 them and we need 2 tell right away and make sure it doesnt happen cuz if it does then they go suicidal and sh*t and we dont want that

  • Manders
    20 years ago

    Report him ASAP!!! if he is 20.. how old is she!! because if she is under legal age.. he can get into a lot of trouble messin with her..

    I am not one to judge age.. but when it is some guy who is 20 hitting on say a 15 or 16 year old I have a problem..

  • Someone who listens
    17 years ago

    Report him n get him fired lol

  • sibyllene
    17 years ago

    Guys, decent responses, but this thread is 3 years old.