I need advice!

hey, i know i have posted alot on here, but i really need advice, ever since i told my b/f about my sexual assulted hes kinda been distant. and he doesnt stop by when i really need him, like i had 2 days of emotional break downs and not one day did he even call to make sure i was okay. He asked me out, before we actually hooked up and i turned him down cuz i wasnt sure if i was ready, and everything i was afraid of happening is happening. and my sisters ex moved out of the house so i no longer talk to him about SI and my sexual assult. i really need him now that i have him and hes no where, im really afraid this is over now

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have you tried talking to him about it??? like saying why are you acting so distant...cause if you have been dating this guy for 4 years this kind of thing shouldnt be an issue

we just started dating almost a month ago, but we dating a long time ago, and just now got back together again. I dont know what his deal is he really doesnt call, and i cant call him, and he doesnt stop by much

hes probably scared...give him time...but if its really an issue and he keeps doing this i dont think you should stay with him....you need a guy that can take your past...not one who runs away from it

alot of ppl have told me to dump him.

i would...but you love him to much...so i dont think that would be the best way to go...even though i just said it was...im confusing myself...but seriously i think he is just scared

okay, i'm gonna see how the next few days go, i dont know what to do

just hang on

i think that maybe he is a bit scared by the news....maybe he feels soo bad but doesnt know how to act now....i dont know...this is a tough one.... i think you prolly just caught him off gaurd....id say that you should talk to him! hope i helped....luv yas mwah

-kayla-

i think tht this guy freaked out cause of what happened. I mean, its kinda hard news to take, he probably really cares about you and doesnt want to see you get hurt, so when he found out about this, he couldnt protect you from it, and so maybe he thought he had let you down. That may be why he is acting different. But i definately think you should talk to him, relationships are about comunication right..? u should be able to talk to him,
good luck and if here if u need some1 to listen

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I understand that he may be scared, but the fact is he knew it had happened later on, i told him i needed to tell him it, so yeah, but our 1 month is coming up in 2 days and i dont even know if hes gonna make an effort to stop by