Does it sound like he is cheating?

  • SHYSTY23KO
    19 years ago

    Its cuz his cell phone! He will never let me see it! But one time i really fought for it and even had a strong hod on his arm, with my teeth! And he still wouldn't give it up! And he always locks it and when i get mad and say stuff like "so what are you hiding? you got dirty messages from other female?" and even when i cry and say "i hate thinkin of you with another female" he still won't give an explination on what or why he is hiding something he just says "i'm only with you" but that doesn't mean he isn't talking to other females in that way right? but when i finnally got his phone, everything was deleted but he admitted to having texts from an x gf. And now, he wont answer my calls or texts. Does it sound like he is hiding something?

  • unprotected lover
    19 years ago

    i dont know does he have a past of cheating, does he having feelings for her. Hes probably mad that you are invading his privacy. right now you are showing that you dont trust him. you need to trust him before this relationship goes any further

  • ~DyingBlackRose~
    19 years ago

    I think it depends on how much you know the guy and trust him. He might be hiding something from you, but even if he is cheating on you he won't actucally admit to it. If this makes you mad or anything I'm sorry, but I had the same feeling once, but it was emails. Maybe this guy isn't worth it, maybe you should try someone else. Even though I know you probably really care about him. If you need anymore help you can email me if you like. Peace and Love.

    ~babygirl88~

  • avery
    19 years ago

    I think you should just lay it down to him
    Don't let him walk all over you like that.
    It's not cool and he shouldn't take advantage of you like that.
    Say that if I don't find out what's going on right here, right now, it's over.
    Let him know that you're serious about it.

  • Kalika
    19 years ago

    "He's cheating on you. Sorry, that's just my opinion, if he wasn't than right off the bat he would have showed you his cell phone."

    Not necessarily. I don't like my boyfriend reading my things, or going through my text messages. I hate when people pry into my things, and perhaps he is the same way. It is nothing personal, it's just an invasion of privacy.

    Kalika

  • Atomic
    19 years ago

    Really, I don't see the point of anyone crying of the fact that they got dumped or their boy/girlfriends are cheating on them. That's what you get for trusting and loving.

    You know what you singed for when you agreed to be his/her mate....shouldn't be a surprise anymore.

    Like Bob said. the guy is clearly an idiot. Can he get anymore obvious with the fact that he's cheating on you with his ex? If he can do it once he can do it twice, a plethora of times as a matter of fact.

    You shouldn't be too clingy. It's a major turn off for both sex I persumed.

    ( )_( )
    (='.'=)
    (")-(") Arrivederci!

  • Kayla
    19 years ago

    it sounds a bit odd but i mean maybe he just wants his privacy....i wouldnt like it if someone went through my journal or something...i dono maybe it is just important to him...and if you are really all that suspicious then dump him.....thats my advice....luv yas mwah

    -kayla-

  • Emma
    19 years ago

    it just sounds like he is hiding something. it may not be another girl but there is something. you also though have to trust him a little just a little.

    Emma

  • ☆Vintage Butterfly Star☆
    19 years ago

    I think he's hiding something but you've got to decide how much you trust him. If he has a past of lying and cheating then you do have reason to be worried.
    You could play him at his own game and get a load of other guys numbers and text them, you could try flirting with other guys aswell, it's childish yeah but it works he'll either realise he's being an idiot or you'll find someone better to replace him !!!