I have 1 ?...

Ok me and this guy Xavier were going out for like 5 months then he broke up with me ok...well so I have been single for about a month now...and there is this guy named Ray that really like me problem is that I went out with him before and it didn't work out cause he asked a gurl out behind my back but he is like oh i have changed and he seems like he has...so I am scared to go out with...the ? is should I go back out with him...

everybody deserves a second chance

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here here, even if they cheated once doesnt mean they'll do it again, if they do it again...or even with anyone else..forget 'em

I still need advice ppl....

Give it a try....if he said he changed then maybe he did....but u won't ever now until u go out with him...Everyone deserves a second change...(well mostly everyone lmao!) but i think in this case u should rick it....go out with him, maybe he really did change! but thats just wut i say....but just htink bout this....whenu get older do u wanna constantly wonder WHAT IF i had agreed....wut would have happened?....i don't think so....sooo i think its best to give him a second chance =D Good luck!
~Luvz~
~Chica~

if he cheated once, im sorry to say , but they will do it again, maybe not right away but eventually they will. And it hurts, a lot so if you really believe he's changed than you can take the chance but if your not too sure dont take the chance. It hurts a lot more the second time ..

Ok I agree with Nicole. Once a cheater, always a cheater. However, follow your heart, only you can know what you want to do.

If it was me though, I wouldn't get involved again with an ex, because if it didn't work the first time, who's to say it will work the second time? Just what I think though..

The "Once a Cheater, always a cheater" theory doesn't apply to everybody. That's what people have trouble realizing.

Just be careful (to original poster).

//Ari\\

I still need some advice to make a final decision...thanx

Still need advive..thanx

I completely agree with Angelina. Twelve is way too young to be worried about such things. You have many years ahead of you to find the right guy, why rush into it? Enjoy being a kid while it lasts. And, as Angelina said, there are many of guys out there, you don't have to worry about making a lasting comittment when you are so young.

Kalika

Hey I still need advice it would be nice...thanx

still need some advice?? what kind of advice?

well i don't give second chances unless i know they guy has matured alot. especially if he cheated or tried to. so jus be his friend and see how things go get to know the "new him" them make a decision. don't jus take his word and go wit him see if hes tellin the whole truth

you want advice on wether or not to go out with a guy that cheated on you once before. many have answered and yet you arnt getting it.

its quite simple, really. if you like him, and think thats hes change, then by all means, go out again. as someone else above mentioned tho, do not get too attached right away because he may cheat again. u must rember that.

there is a chance he may cheat again, and theres a chance he wont. if you like him enuf to risk the chance of him cheating on you again, then ask him out.
if you are worried aout him cheating on you, that what makes you think the relationship will last even if you ask him out?
the cards have been dealt, play them the way you want to

Thanks for the advice every1 I made my choice....and I am now going out with him!!!! We have been dating for about 3 months now!!!

But... only about a month ago you were saying you still needed advice.. :S

Your not my father, and in fact my parents know about all of this they have been here for me...just face it these years aren't like they were when you were growing up so deal with it...my god I would hate to be your daughter...

OK, dont' have to start on the personal attacks eh?
Chill.