???what do u do if he is obsessed with you or some1 like ur bff?

  • Lydia O
    19 years ago

    Why don't you just twll him that the casual friendship you had with him is how you want things to remain. Tell him you don't dislike him but you don't feel at all comfortable with the direction he wants to head to with you. Then suggest that if he wants a girlfriend he should be looking elsewhere and that you wish him well.

  • *sparkles*
    19 years ago

    agreed with lydia. I think you should let him know that he is starting to make you uncomfortable and you see him no more than a friend. Let him know why it is you wouldn't date him. Tell him you don't want to ruin the friendship. If all else fails, just tell him bluntly that he is becoming obsessive and it's at the point that you dont want to be friends with him anymore if he doesn't quit it.

  • Already Beautiful
    19 years ago

    obsessive can be cute , but not like this.... get the hell out of that friendship because you cant change a persons way.... trust me, i know what u are going through (ex), just leave cause obsessions can turn bad