HELP ME SERIOUSLY!! FAST PLEASE!!!

  • heather
    20 years ago

    hey wut i would do is just try being friends with him if u arent sure.

  • †Rachel†
    20 years ago

    ok...not being funny but why should it bother you...he hasnt changed...hes still the same person you knew when you first met him...?

  • Jackie Bilson
    20 years ago

    Yeah I agree with the other people. BUT, I do know how you feel about first realising. When I found out that my friend was bi, I got a little creeped out. Especially when he said that Keanu Reeves was hot. I didn't want to hurt his feelings so I pretended I was ok. But you know after awhile, I didn't even think about it. I mean, when you see that it is actually STILL him, it's nothing. Nothing's changed.

    But what especially helped me see that, was not only knowing that I was the first person he told but also, that when he told my other friend (supposedly HIS best friend) he acted like a jerk and was all, ew... sh*t! Get away from me!

    It made me see, just how scary it mut have been for him to come out to me and It would be totally uncalled for, for me to add to the crap people might give him.

  • Sierra Rae
    20 years ago

    Wow-I think that's a great answer/story Jackie!!

    The only thing I have to add is that one of my girlfriends has this guy who is bi-and to tell the truth it kind of freaked me out at first...just...i don't know weird. But then I realized that he was just a really funny person and nothing changed knowing he was this way. His girlfriend didn't break up with him or anything, she never saw a problem in it, and I guess I don't really either...