I have to chose btwn 2 guys...

Well, I have a boyfriend and I also like this other guy...I love my boyfriend a lot and I don't want to let him go so quickly just because this other guy comes along...But, I also Like this guy because he can relate to everything I'm going through and I can talk to him about everything and anything and he won't flip out and go crazzy and I'm never scared to talk to him. But, my boyfriend...I'm afraid to talk to him about what goes on in my life!!! It's hard to explain...but if you have any advice, please comment!!!

Why are you scared of your boyfriend? I know sometime you can relate someone else, but I did that and I made a mistake and broke up with my boyfriend for him and the guy I broke up with my boyfriend for started dating someone else and now I feel bad and I'm more depressed then ever and I don't know what to do? I always told my boyfriend what was going on, but he never understood me, for me. I hope you understood that, but you should really try to talk to your boyfriend and stop relying the other guy all the time. I hope everything works out and I hope you know that I'm not trying to make you mad or run your life. Peace and Love

~babygirl88~

yeah I know but I'm not scared of him I'm just scared to tell him everything because I don't know what his reaction would be...He knows I go to therapy but that's it...The other guy knows I go to therapy, I used to cut, I was suicidal, And a whole lotta other things that I don't think my boyfriend will understand why?! Don't get me wrong, I love my boyfriend...But, I think I'm falling in love with this other guy too! i don't know tho!

thats ok im in love with this one guys, im pretty sure he likes me back but i dont know, but i like this other guy, but hes in love with me, so i gotta alot to do between now n homcoming

lol yeah like trying to figure out who to take right? lol

yeah im confused, how bout u ^_^

lol i know...i've been confused by day one!!! lol

If you are having feelings for someone else, despite what you say, you can't fully love your boyfriend.

For now I'd suggest you just stay with you boyfriend, wait a while and see how things work out. Not good advice, I know, but if you rush into it and dump your boyfriend you may end up regretting it but then again if you stay with him and the other guy has feelings for you as well then you are going to regret that as well. So take some time to yourself and decide what it is you really want before making any rash decisions. I really hope this helped!

If you can't properly talk to your boyfriend about issues, and are contemplating going out with this other guy, you don't love him.

Either learn to love him with expressing the truth, or let him find true love from a girl who won't keep her life as a shadow.

I do love him with all my heart and more but it seems really hard to tell him...how would I go about telling him something like that?

lol but what if they both hot?

omg. this is so creepy, i am going through the exact same thing. it is killing me. with my bf, the stuf that goes on in my life deals with guys alot and he gets mad. with this other guy, it is just flowing all goo. i think that the best plan of action is to stay with the man and make the new guy a friend. if the freidnship develops then so be it. but just try and let it all flow.

libby