Love is one big illusion ='(

I've also been caught by one of those vixens, alot of people have. And those who were fortunate not to have been hurt like that, they're lucky. This girl sounds just like one of my ex's, a suducer who takes advantae of a man's heart.
All I've got to say is you've got to be STRONG!! get through this and you'll get through anything. Ignore her calls, IM's, w/e it is. At last resort, move away because a girl like that can mess up your life really bad. Good luck man, I hope you make it.
Aken Sol